Stupid SAHM.

I went to ipoh yesterday for the Focus Group Discussion. And i talked to my boss to and fro to Ipoh. Woman, we can really talk! MILS, SILS, GHOST, Children, schools, everything la. She told me about two of her friends. One, is a SAHM who got retrenched 10 years ago and decided to be a SAHM. Depending on only one income from the husband, stayed home make another 2 more babies and totally don't know anything about the outside world. They're not rich but using money like nobody's business. The worst part,they have not paid any water bill and electricity bill for more than 1 year, ever since they moved into Kota Kemuning. The house were decorated so posh-ly, she buy flowers from Sg Buloh all the time, Shop and Shop And shop, Never paid the house installments for months and not to forget the car installment.

Worst, even with debts all over the body, they can still go on and use the credit cards. 2 incident where she was doing some marketing in PJ and suddenly when she wanted to go into her car, 2 guys came and snatched her keys. She thought that someone wanted to rob her! In fact they're from the bank, to tow her car. Another one was in a roundabout near her house. They left her at the roadside..she gotto walk all the way backto her house herself. Can you imagine how terrible is the condition at that time?

And she and her hub can go around and borrow money from relatives, refinance the house over and over again( i dunno how they do that) and not pay the relatives back..instead they use it to pay for water fountain, fengshui, renovate the house! OMG! She deserved to be shot right at the head!

And she treats her kids like they're the KING. Whatever they do, its okay. Wanna buy, take. Don't wanna eat, its okay. And now the kids even challenged her, "You want to beat me? NYEH NYEH!! Beat la!". OMG!!!! And the kids are like 5,7 and 10 years old only. So my boss told me, please be strict with yr baby otherwise you will have a tough time when they grow up. Okay, i'm glad i'm starting to train my LIl J to be more discipline. I'm just waiting for the moment that he will not stand up on the baby high chair in the restaurants when we're eating. Thats my next target, doing it one by one.

During CNY, she refused to go back to her hubs place. With the reason, the SILS looked down on her. How not to? Lend her the money, and she used the money that was supposed to be for her to pay off debts but she used it to buy flowers for her garden!!! And because of that the hub went back to PG and she went to her dad's house in JB. and guess what???? Her dad don't let her to step into the house (bcos ion chinese community its not good for the daughter who got married to be back home on the first day of CNY-so old fashion!). She gotto stay in the hotel with the 3 kids, the night before cny and one first day of cny. The SIL gotto send food to her and helped her to pay for the room fees.

And now my boss is helping her to look for a job. Asked her to prepare home cookes meal and deliver to nearby single, she said she don't know how to cook. Asked her to baby sit , she said she felt confined with kids, not flexible. Ask her to do this she say she don't know. Do that don't know. OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! no no it's OMFG!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know what to say. This woman left me - speechless. More speechless than Me making you guys speechless! Haha.

Well, somehow she taught me to be a smarter SAHM (if i wanna be one in the future)like her, her and her. Although they're SAHMs but they have thier own savings and they're up-to-date. We woman (and esp mommies) need to have own security, e.g. own savings, must expose ourselves to the outside world and updates and not be like a "Katak di bawah tempurung". RIGHT??????

Okay enuff of gossiping...Someone broke my egg! and he is ACEONE! My vote now is about 19 votes. I used to be placed on the last page...which is the errr i have no idea what page is that. Now i'm at the 3rd page! Thanks! Thanks! Thanks! for your support *blow flying kiss and wave like miss chinese international pagent*.