When men cheats.

Oprah’s show today spoke about why men cheat ( I got this on Astro max, which I’m so gonna watch it over n over again!), where she invited several men to confess and tell why they initially cheated. Surprisingly, some cheated when they’re still not married, during wedding ceremony and of cos after wedding. There’s one guy that went for his wedding, thinking about his mistress.(then shouldn’t get married right?)

Gosh! That guy is crying now, saying how he regretted cheating on his wife after 18 years of marriage. He said that he met the woman who is also married at his son’s scout’s den, always drive to somewhere to have sex, to alleys, next to police stations, in the park, behind supermarkets and blablabla and you know what? His wife is backstage listening to all these. Imagine the wives at the backstage listening to all the men confessing how they cheated, why they cheated and how sorry they were. Who suffers more?

One guy confessed saying that he still love the wife (don’t they always say the same thing?). Why did he looked for other woman? He said it was a mutual thingy where the eyes spoke like “I KNOW you want me”. Niabeh….If that’s the case, I’m supposed to have affairs so many times edi la..

And another guy said that he looked for other woman cos he was not “adored” at home. He said the feeling of being adored is very important. So Oprah asked him back, “well did you do the same to your wife? Adored her?” and he replied, “No. I didn’t do that". Shiat. Then you expect her to adore you, when you come back home, throw your blardy bag, take off shoes, fling to the left and right, sit down and asked what’s for dinner. When the wife gotto run here and there, trying to juggle between the house chores, kids, dinner, laundry? Men….so so so selfish!

Another said that it was so nice. Cos’ he wasn’t expected to help to wash the dishes, help with the kids and all. As soon as he went to the mistress’s house, he will just sit down, and waited to be greeted in sexy lingerie with dinner all ready and hot sex for dessert.

Oh another guy is crying…..Oprah said to the guy who was crying… “all these tears doesn’t mean a DAMN thing. ANYTHING at all. The most important thing is to be clean and to tell the truth” on national TV.

Another man confessed that his sexual desire is higher than the wife. So the only way out is to find someone to fulfill his needs. Oprah really made them feel so shameful. Haha “So after you sleep with the woman, do you go home and bath and have sex again with your wife?” The faces all became like ham choy (Sayur Masin).

I always thought that how come the man always blame the wives for then to have affairs? They expect the wife to adore them, treat them like a king, and treat them like they’re newly in love and all. But are they doing something to get that in return. So if the wife didn’t get treated the same way , does that mean that the wife can go out to have affair???

If its about sex, then they gotto work it out. Buy Viagra ka, buy Gambir ka or Kacip Fatimah ka…Anything la. Or just talk it out. There must be a reason why there’s no “bed communications”. No matter how, (not suggesting that everyone should go home and have sex tonight k? tomorrow also can…) “married” couples should be intimate once in a while to keep the relationship healthy. Cos woman normally after giving birth and all, don’t feel like having sex anymore. For many reasons, be it scared to get pregnant, tired, or simply think that the husband is not worth it or many other reasons. You need to work it out for your kids sake ka…for your own sake ka….Need communications if you want it to work out! I believe that being in a relationship needs communication and open-ness. Need to spill it out whether its good or not at least they need to tell the truth.

You know lately the police has trained some dogs to sniff out the pirated CDs? Maybe I should train my BoBo n ChaCha to sniff out men who just cheated on the wife. And straight away punish them by biting their DingDong. You think I can make money? *Kaching! Kaching!*