When J was born, he refused to let his dadi touch him or even feed him using the baby bottle. He'd cry out loud until Big C is out of the sight. (That's why people said, don't get angry with a person too much or the baby will come out hating that person very much or will look like the person when he/she's born.) I began to push Lil J to be with his dad and encourage his dad to be with him more. Everyday, I'll ask Jayden "call dadi la.." And now, Dadi is the only word that will come out from his mouth, effortlessly. He even gave his dadi a special nickname - Dadidi.
And there's no Mami, Mimi, Mama, Mumu, Momo or Meme. My name is *silent* or "here, this" or "what's this?". That's all.
It is getting more and more obvious that he's preferring his dad more over me. One day, it was raining and the suddenly *thunder*, he dropped his crayons and ran out with the concerned face saying "Dadidi???". Probably wondering if the father got trapped outside under the rain. Here, you can see the son want to protect the father.
Then he'll ask me "Dadidi??" when our neighbour parks his car. He thought that his dadi is back.
In the morning, He will call out "Dadidi!" with the milk bottle teat in his mouth when he's enjoying his morning milk.
And last night, he refused to talk to his Dadi through the handphone because he thought that he's coming back later. After I put down the phone, he ran to the living room, looked out the door and yelled Dadidi!!! Dadidi!!! I told him, Dadi is working and won't be coming back tonight. Immediately he threw his fav Awi on the floor and looked real sad. And then he picked Awi up and followed me into the room.
That's how much he love his Dadidi.
And me? errrrrrr Like Nadia says "someday babe, someday..."
Yeah, maybe someday....
And there's no Mami, Mimi, Mama, Mumu, Momo or Meme. My name is *silent* or "here, this" or "what's this?". That's all.
It is getting more and more obvious that he's preferring his dad more over me. One day, it was raining and the suddenly *thunder*, he dropped his crayons and ran out with the concerned face saying "Dadidi???". Probably wondering if the father got trapped outside under the rain. Here, you can see the son want to protect the father.
Then he'll ask me "Dadidi??" when our neighbour parks his car. He thought that his dadi is back.
In the morning, He will call out "Dadidi!" with the milk bottle teat in his mouth when he's enjoying his morning milk.
And last night, he refused to talk to his Dadi through the handphone because he thought that he's coming back later. After I put down the phone, he ran to the living room, looked out the door and yelled Dadidi!!! Dadidi!!! I told him, Dadi is working and won't be coming back tonight. Immediately he threw his fav Awi on the floor and looked real sad. And then he picked Awi up and followed me into the room.
That's how much he love his Dadidi.
And me? errrrrrr Like Nadia says "someday babe, someday..."
Yeah, maybe someday....
Dear, it just a past time. Both my sons also call their Papa 1st, but now Mommy here and Mommy there. So don't worry, they just reserve the best :)
ReplyDeleteHehehe...looks like you are a bit jealous hor. I am sure Jayden has you in his heart.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry, sure there will be time where Jayden will mummy mummy non stop until u cannot tahan! Kelvin initially also doesn't want to call me, but now, ma ma here ma ma there until sometime wanna go toilet also cannot.
ReplyDeleteI bet he will soon be "mami" this and "mami" that when he realizes he will get a *present* soon....
ReplyDeleteha ha ..yea..like giddy tiger says...wait till No.2 is around....
ReplyDeletewah........ shit aso kenot!!!
Maybe daddy seldom scold him. FOr me. Raelynne clingy to me because I "spoilt" her and meet her "demands". That day did a test when i was working over night. She didnt bully mummy in the morning to ask her on the TV. If I'm at home, she asked me to turn on TV until I turn it on.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry babe. He will call you someday and when he does.. like mott cakap.. shit oso cannotlah!! Haha!
ReplyDeletesasha,
ReplyDeleteI think when he grows older, he'll stick to you more. I always see boys stick to their mums more and girls stick to their dads more. hehe.
nvm...later he will sure bother u one keke
ReplyDeletei guess it's great that the kid is attached to his dad..i really don't mind..hahaha..
ReplyDeleteOh, I got my baby pet when Isabelle came along. LOL! Justin sticks to papa loh, he said boy and boy woh, girl (mommy) cannot join. :P
ReplyDeleteyes, one fine day.. regardless of what, kids will stil lgo back to their mummies one..
ReplyDeleteeh, still got another in the stomach. still got hope la..'teasing'
but at least he goes to daddy rather then other ppl. at least one of the parent..
just pass by to say"Hi". Have a nice day!"
ReplyDeletei have no doubt lil J love you to bits.... but i can see he is more shy towards female...so strange. so young can differentiate already...haha!
ReplyDeletehe is cute, funny and very unique.....just like his mom :)
ehh, they r father n son ma...some more look so-alike so it is just god's willing that they love each other so much!!
ReplyDeleteand i'm sure lil J's love to you are equal...or maybe just different way of showing....shy genes ma??
My two oso call daddy first woh. Some more, my girl's very first word is "daddy" woh, two syllable word. Not dada or daaaaa but daddy. They call mommy later but now stuck like glue to mommy. Haha.
ReplyDelete*hmmmmm got sour smell ya* hahahahha
ReplyDeleteNo worry, like other mummies said, one day when Jay call u non stop and stick to u a lot, then u will said "oh no! Shit also cannot."
U know when i shower, my boys are sitting outside the shower room and wait for me! *Stress and can't breath*
Sasha, i remember your advice...scared to get angry with hb liao...got 2, how to manage if both also dont like him ??
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hmmn i know tat feeling..Josh treat me the same..always Papa :(
ReplyDeleteit is actually a good sign so that you can concentrate on your # 2. But hor, like what other mothers said, things may change when # 2 is out..
ReplyDeleteBUt for sure, it is really a good start...
it is actually a good sign so that you can concentrate on your # 2. But hor, like what other mothers said, things may change when # 2 is out..
ReplyDeleteBUt for sure, it is really a good start...
I'm like Julian there...
ReplyDeleteI kasi manja to the max.. thats why papa papa papa only.
But JD still young mah.. surely he will grow up later he will can u.. then u menyesal later on. everything also mommy...mommy, mommy.. mama..
pengsan :)
Like now wife actually enjoying this coz donk ask her to make his nenen hot. hahaha.
The pictures taken are so sweet. Papa and Baby time =). Maybe you could also post one Mama and Baby time ;)
ReplyDeleteThe pics r really beautiful... n I'm not referring to Big C ok. LOL The feeling's just beautiful.
ReplyDeleteEh! at least you still get sayang when you say "I help you" For me I am still getting spit.
ReplyDeletelook at it as a blessing in disguise...at least when no. 2 is out, he wont be that clingy on you and that would give you more time to tend to the newborn...
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