Why did I say that its funny? It's because I am actually practising something, which I once said IT'S RIDICULOUS AND IT'S IMPOSSIBLE. When Jayden stopped fussing, I said "Oh my god... I am actually practising it and it works!" So I continued reading the book "Got An Angry Kid" from Parents Reviewers giveaway and everything after that day makes more sense and believable.
The 28 goals mentioned in this book may seem too hard to achieve especially the first 2 goals. No shouting and no showing of anger. Tell me how many parent of a 3 yr old can do it? But as you read on, you will know that you CAN actually do it. I actually stop shouting or scolding Jayden for few days now. Do you know how big is that achievement for me? *lol*
Just remember the action-reaction theory. You smile at people, people will smile back at you. Same thing applies for shouting and showing anger. I know it's really hard not to shout and be angry at the things they do. So you will need to look at point no3. Distract yourself. Haha I can go on and on you know about this book. But I am not going to because it'll be too long for you guys to read.