Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Are U Scared?

I was in my bathroom the other night when Jayden came banging on the door. And I can hear his dadi saying "JAYDEN! NO NO!" and he totally ignored the father and continued to bang the door, harder this time with his Henry train. Again the father warned him "I SAID NO!"

PIAKKK!! PIAK!!!!!

UWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeap, he got whacked by his dad at the bumbum.

So after I went out from the bathroom, he came running to me and hid in between my legs. (ngam ngam hou, tinggi sikit cannot masuk already) Then his dadi said "Come, Jayden". And he cried louder and reversed abit, walking further away from his dadi. Big C tried again "Come, Jayden. Dadi sayang". UWAAAA!!!! UWA!!!!!!!!!!! and reversed more. He tried again "come la...come".

So I carried the lil one and brought him to the mirror and I pretended to cry like him with my mouth open wide. Then he laughed at me. And stopped crying.

Out of no where the father come again "Come, jayden come..."

Me: OHHHHHH!!!!! u!!!!! U're so scared that he is angry at you!!!!!!
Big C: Nolah! I am not scared la *trying to be cool*
Me: YES!!!!!!!!!!! If not then why u come...jayden come??
Big C: Nolah.....No....
Me: YES!!!!!! Admit it!!!!!!!!
Big C: *giggle* Nolah... Noo Not like that..*giggle*
Me: Eyerrrrrrrrr samo u dun admit..
Big C: *laugh* Grab Jayden and hug the lil guy and he arched his body, refused to let his dadi carry him and he fell to his own bed. Big C came to our bed and hugged the pillow.
Me: See???? samo dun admit


How about u guys? You guys scared or not?

57 comments:

  1. Anonymous7:06 PM

    First one! Hahaha, no lah, I won't be scared. But then hor, my kids have never done that to either of us (never angry with us)when we smacked them. Hehehe.....

    I think Big C feels hurt that he was only trying to teach Jayden something and Jayden took it the wrong way....so Big C feels very hurt lor!

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  2. With 2, I whack first and make them scare..hehehehe. Eventually after a few minutes of crying, sure ask me to sayang them. :P

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  3. Anonymous4:40 AM

    I think it is a man thing you know..! PB also same same.. like that..!

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  4. haha...mine oso whack oredi then later come here...daddy sayang...haiyo..like that then how to be strict, children also not sked lor

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  5. i m sked.. mine just too cool.. but his dadi buat cool lah ..

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  6. hahahah scared!!

    everytime i fatt pei hei..baby will stick to her daddy..then i will steal her back! hahahahaha

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  7. Sama sama lah. Mr MG oso whack first then after that call out "Come here, daddy sayang." Yup, sked!

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  8. hahahaha..me not scared! Boy's daddy scared..hahahahaha..after piak piak and scolding..then he hv to "tham" them back! hahahahaha

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  9. Anonymous11:11 AM

    Me also whack 1st then sayang balik, summore kena whack by them sumtime, how to strict hor...

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  10. good that Big C help u to whack J whtn he's naughty. Terence never whack Kelvin, he is mr nice daddy and me is miss bad mummy. hahahaha!

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  11. Anonymous11:40 AM

    rachel do that to tecky also
    but for the sake of the father daughter relationship, i usually won't pacify her, and push her towards the daddy so she will accept him back...

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  12. Anonymous11:41 AM

    Nope not scared. If you wanna show colours to your kids then you have to stick with it... though sometimes Raelynne will "ignore" me for a little while after I scold her or dont let her do the things she want to do, later on she will be ok one

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  13. Haha! Irfan runs to Irwan when I scold him. But then later when I'm cool already, he'll come to me and hug me and give me a big sloppy kiss. Haha! Kids... :P

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  14. Anonymous1:19 PM

    Last night Ryan accidentally knocked his head on Daddy's as he was jumping on bed while I make his milk (night feed). Daddy of coz shocked and scolded the lil fella. Less than a min, he was seen hugging Ryan and he pulak the one said sorry.....Men.. they are all the same. If only they treat us the same.. with us.. always "sei yiu min"

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  15. my hubs is like this sometimes...hehehehe. Scold scold and then ask the munchkin to go to him. Of course she doesn't want him then.

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  16. haha! i bet they are but too ego to admit.

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  17. We r not sked. CE will sometimes ignore PaPa for awhile if he whacked or scolded him. But he doesn't ignore me if I'm the one who whacked him. hahaha.. double std.

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  18. sked wat? i think my aidan takes after me, doesn't harbour negative feelings. but i very much like it when hubby smacks him and he comes running to me, pouting, wanting a hug and whisper 'naughty daddy' ... hahaha, makes my day :P

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  19. Anonymous5:38 PM

    but my hubs is not like that though..he just whack only...and not feel guilty

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  20. HiHi My friend, Greetings!
    Daddy has not start his whacking yet, but I did :p

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  21. dunno yet.. but A claims he will whack bb if bb's noti next time woh... (told him Sasha said he won't! hehe..) I update you next time if he does that ya.. :-)

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  22. My hubby will feel 'sum thoong' whenever his 2 precious princesses cry after he had scolded them.... and he will try to 'tham' them back, haha!

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  23. is it all man lidat??? hmm......

    *WWH go and ask his wifey*

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  24. err..won't happen cos hubby won't whack her wan. he said wan. so, we shall see *snigger*

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  25. thank you for your advice. Malaika is slowly recovering.

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  26. haha sure scarelah. happy weekends!

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  27. Haha..my DH also like tat...except he just scold Ian and Ian will merajuk...kakakaka

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  28. haha...sure you hb regret a lot liao...hehehe....

    but i really hope my hb will whack qiqi one day...to bad he hasn't until today, not even raise his voice :(

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  29. Anonymous6:12 PM

    My piggy hub's also like tat and my kids just like Jayden will angry wif the daddy but later they will friend-friend back.No worry.

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  30. Sigh man lidat lar....
    Just drop by to wish you Keong Hee Fatt Chye.

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  31. i want to wish you and family KUNG HEI FATT CHOY first. who knows when we will be free next! :)

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  32. Hahahaha this is kinda cute! I think Big C was scared ;)

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  33. Anonymous5:16 PM

    Form of discipline ma... hehehe

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  34. Anonymous6:00 PM

    my hubs oso beat oredi then feel guilty and sayang back. for me .. i don't do it straightaway .. i waited awhile when they are quiet then i'll sayang them back. :)

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  35. Anonymous12:13 AM

    happy prosperous new year to you and your family!

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  36. my kids not sked one. the daddy whacked them... they tot it's funny and play play some more...

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  37. Sasha and family,
    Gongxi Fa Chai

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  38. just drop by to wish u HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR...GONG HEI FATT CHOY! :-)

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  39. Happy chinese new year to you and your family.

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  40. here's wishing you and your family a very Happy Chinese New Year :-) coming over?

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  41. GONG XI FA CHAI to you and your family!!

    Wishing you WEALTH, HEALTH and HAPPINESS!!!

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  42. Anonymous12:52 AM

    me not sked cos me bad guy all the time! Gong Xi Fa Cai to u & family & happy reunion!!

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  43. Anonymous1:00 PM

    wishing you and your family a very happy and prosperous CNY.

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  44. Dear Sasha,
    Just wanna wish you and your family a Happy and Prosperous CHinese New year!!
    May Jayden receives a lot of ang pow!!!
    I will be so scared if my son ignore me after I yell at him, guess most parents are like that. My hubby and I both doesn't smack our kid, but once in awhile we give him time out by putting him in a nottie corner, doesn't work though coz he refused to sit there. Also once put him in the room for 1 min, doesn't work either coz he knows how to open the door. Now if I ever get mad becoz of his bahavior, I'll give myself time out, I locked myself in the room until I cool down. =)
    Anyways, I still think kids are so cute eventhough they are nottie at times...

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  45. 衷心祝你们一家人

    新年快乐, 万事如意! ^_^

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  46. gong xi fa cai.
    wishing you and family good health and more wealth!

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  47. Gong xi fa cai to you, big C and little C too!

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  48. Anonymous3:48 PM

    I wont also.. but later need to sayang balik lol

    happy chinese new year

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  49. GONG XI GONG XI NI MEN Ar...

    Sun tai gin hong ar..
    ching chun mei lai ar..

    where are you ar ??

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  50. Gong Xi Fa Cai!! Xin Nian Kuai Le!!

    May you have great wealth, good health and abundant joy in the Rat year!!

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  51. my girl scared of me more than my boy when i get angry. actually, i feel hurt too when scolding or smacking them. sure later i'll go sayang them again.....deep in my heart, i sometimes feel scared of losing them too if I scold them a lot!

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  52. Anonymous12:27 AM

    Sasha, holiday ah? No update one? Yawwwwnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Where is Jayden, why he no blog for you this time? :)

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  53. hello pretty Sasha,
    Where have you been? I miss you and cutie pie Jayden ler!!!!!
    PS. Happy Valentine's day to you!!! Hope you have an awesome Valentine's.

    Nicole

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  54. No matter how I whack them, they still want me...he, he....

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  55. Happy New Year to you!!

    My hubby also scared.. Haha..

    Actually I also la.. but it takes me longer to cool down to offer her a hug.

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  56. No la...my sons always angry with their daddy. Always ngam ngam cham cham after kena whacked. The next minute you will see them having pillow fight. No worries la..kids forget easily, i hope :P

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  57. all the men are same, so does my hubby! smack then sayang, that's why jo never takut him !

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