My ChaCha passed away last sunday while we're in PD. I took her with us and smuggled her into the apartment. Complain? What complain when my dog is paralyzed and hardly got the energy to bark. Maid woke me up at 4ish in the morning and I managed to accompany her till her last breath. We brought her back to PJ and buried her in my parents house. Jayden was sleeping when it happened and hub said better not show her to the kids- worried that they might get upset.
After the burial we went home and hub went to work. Then we drove back to my mums again for dinner. Before we came out, Jayden asked:
JD: Mami? where is cha cha?
Me: B.. Cha Cha die edi.
JD: *put head down and think* No cha cha is upstairs.
Me: No B. Cha Cha died at the beach place (PD).
JD: die?...Where is cha cha now?
Me: Cha Cha at poh poh's house. Just now mami dug a hole and buried her in the ground edi.
JD: *look confused*
Me: errr step 1, mami dig a hole. Step 2, put cha cha in the hole. Step 3, cover the hole and cha cha with soil. (need to explain using his fav method- OSO special way)
So when we reached mums house i brought him to the grave and showed him
Me: B . You see this? Underneath here, mami put cha cha.
JD: Step 1: dig a hole. Step 2, put cha cha inside. Step 3 , cover and die. Cha cha on the ground.
Me: In the ground. That's what happen when someone die. Die means cannot move, cannot eat, cannot play anymore. Cha Cha die because of accident. Something knock her back and she cannot move then she died. So you also must becareful okay?
JD: must be care...ful if not will die.
Me: Now you say bye bye to Cha Cha la..
Jd: Bye Cha Cha..