Friday, September 19, 2008

When Big J met Small J

Everyone waited patiently for Jayden's arrival at the hospital. Everyone wanted to see what was his first reaction when he first meet his little brother. I was excited+worried too. And then he finally came and Big C was carrying him. When he saw me sitting on the bed, he quickly removed his shoes to joined me. At that point, suddenly I felt that Jayden has grown so much and he is so big size. I always thought that he is super small size. Then, I tried  to be cool, hugged and kissed him, telling him how much I missed him before I presented Justin to him and told him "This is your TiTi...sayang baby?"

He looked at Justin with a very very confused look, and then he said "Sayang baby...." and he wanted to stroke the head but he couldn't control his strenght and "WHAM!" he whacked Justin's head and made Justin cried.

Oh course everybody's reaction was like "Oh no!".  Jayden was shocked and he ran out of the room and "guling" on the floor. My sis chased after him and asked him "Jayden are u angry?" and he replied "yes,angry baby".

Then he came back in, I asked him to come and join me on the bed again. This time I carried Justin and hugged him at the same time and told him "it's okay, baby is not angry. But don't "touch" Justin so hard next time okay?pain pain wan..."

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And he went home with Big C. The next day, we picked him up from my mums and he saw Justin. This time, he said "Hi baby...." and stroked Justin's head.....slowly.

I tell you..that moment I just felt so happy that he understand what I told him and also, I know he is beginning to accept Justin as his TiTi.

40 comments:

  1. No worries, in no time at all, they'll be the best of friends and they can take care of each other. Then you can have more time with Big C. Hahaha.

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  2. he'll be a good big bro I'm sure :-) right big J?

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  3. ya hor...

    J suddenly look so big. Tai Kor J!

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  4. give him time and he will come to accept titi..

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  5. Wow..... Big J suddenly growth so fast, you can 'fong sum' now.

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  6. Big J will surely miss the days he played aeroplane on mommy's tummy eh...

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  7. It will sure be nice to see the brotherly bond between them as they grow. Not to mention of course, you will have an added role soon..."moderator/negotiater/judge...as court cases will be part and parcel of your life as these boys grow up.

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  8. Jayden will be a good big brother to Justin.

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  9. aww...brotherly love... so sweet.

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  10. See... nothing to worry. Jayden kor kor will take vy good care of Justin titi.

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  11. What a touching tale of when the two brothers met. Jayden is such a good boy, so you no need to worry about him all the time. Hugs to all of you. Btw, you still owe me your addy hehehe.

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  12. Jayden is so cute, no worry, Jayden will sayang the baby titi very very much! By that time u may feel jealous coz Jayden sayang titi more than mamadi, HAHA!

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  13. Sasha,
    Little Jayden will sure sayang his titi one. I guess next time, he'll also jaga his baby titi.:)

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  14. whoisbaby1:41 PM

    very nice picture of the three of you.

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  15. He will be one very good koh koh to Justin before you even realize it. :)

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  16. Ohh he jealous but at the same time sayang Di Di.

    I'm sure he will accept Di Di very soon just need sometime.

    Sasha.. more hardwork for u to jaga Two Babies. But i'm sure all worth the effort.

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  17. gr8 pic of you guys! the Js & mummy!

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  18. awww that's so sweet. Bryan also very rough with his didi but after a while, he warmed up to him and now Bryan totally adores BRandon!

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  19. I'm sure Jay will love his didi very much.

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  20. he's a good bro for sure

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  21. how is big J to titi now?
    i'm sure in no time they will be playing together..

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  22. that is so sweet. i'm sure jay will be a good kor kor :D

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  23. wow,the shock from audience probably confuse Jayden, the poor dear. But haha. the "wham" from him startled me too.

    This is probably a better reaction than what I got when I came home with AShley. Kimberly just ran away from me everywhere I try to hold her, she ran away again, sobbing as she ran. Took me half a day to get her to come back to me.

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  24. wooo you are such a joking huh ,I read back the pass 2 post haha u didn;t get the apptdur hehehhe , I find is the best thing in birth hahah , I am like you with oliver joking so easy going for the lab but this time with little aden I only ahve one leg is diet and feel nothing but the right leg I can still feel a little pain so I know when to push when I am in contration .
    I love the way jayden so sweet to his little brother . gosh .... see this is so call ..... blood is ticker then water ... after all there are brother kekekeek .
    congr to the all of you ,
    you are super .... sexy mama xxx

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  26. wooo you are such a joking huh ,I read back the pass 2 post haha u didn;t get the apptdur hehehhe , I find is the best thing in birth hahah , I am like you with oliver joking so easy going for the lab but this time with little aden I only ahve one leg is diet and feel nothing but the right leg I can still feel a little pain so I know when to push when I am in contration .
    I love the way jayden so sweet to his little brother . gosh .... see this is so call ..... blood is ticker then water ... after all there are brother kekekeek .
    congr to the all of you ,
    you are super .... sexy mama xxx

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  28. ai.. too bad i cant see the pic.. but it's good that Big J now sayang LIL J.. hahaha..

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  29. Justin got so much hair.

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  30. I am sure both J&J will have fun together soon!

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  31. awww....so sweet like sugar lor, hopefully they'll be good 'heng tai' as they grow....

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  32. Good boy Jayden..
    mommy no more worries:)

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  33. Yeah.. Irfan can't control his strength with his cousin brother too.

    I'm sure Jayden will be a good kor kor. Hope you're doing well, babe! :)

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  34. No wory... later he will love titi like u do .... Jayden's a good boy, see, he can understand real fast lei ... no wory.... cant wait to see 2 brother playing together lei ??? Nice photo.

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  35. aww!! i never knew it was gona be so hard for them to accept..but no worries..Big J is a big boy now!! he understands =D

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  36. Keith got excited seeing Charlotte for the 1st time and always wanted to hold her. A few times he tried to carry her. We were so worried

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  37. What a beautiful pic of mother and boys! Looks like Justin will be a joy to breastfeed :) (Lucas was like that too!)

    I think Jayden will be a good kor-kor too

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