If it never happen to your child..

you don't care much, right?

Okay, let me cerita you all.

The other day after I sent JD to his class, and so happen that hour was "playground" time. So we're all at the playground and I saw the smallest size girl, started scolding this boy who was about to slide down from the top of the slide. As soon as he reached the ground, the girl smacked and scolded him, crossed her arms and walked off. The guy was clueless of what had just happened.

So I wondered.. wah this girl quite a cili padi for her size and age man. So I just pointed to the teacher "This girl quite fierce also eh?" And the teacher who didn't witness the smacking incident just said "yeah, she's very fierce".

So this morning I sent JD and the teacher was away at that time. So I asked JD, so where do you wanna sit today? (cos they just merged 2 classes together, and the teacher wants the kids to mix around, so change seating position everyday) And everyone else pointed at the seat next to the fierce girl. I asked "how come everyday also sit here? I thought have to change place?" and they went "no no.. Jayden sit here wan.."

As soon as JD sat down and holding his water tumbler, the girl went to pinch his left ear, smacked his shoulder and mumbled (I can see that she is scolding him but I have no idea what she said) and she raised her voice and said "YOU UNDERSTAND OR NOT!". And my boy just nod his head and say "yes yes yes" and smilling sheepishly.

I went.. OMG? What just happened right in front of my eyes. She pinched his ear, smacked him and scolded him in front of me. Can you imagine when I am not there?

So I asked JD " what did she say to you?" He just gave me a very scared look and shook his head. I turned to her and asked her "You very fierce hor?" and she happily answered "hehe YEAH!"

I was dumbfounded and left speechless.

The teacher came back and I went to her and said "this XXX is so small size but so fierce hor?" And the teacher sighed and said "yeah .. she is... very fierce wan"
So I added "so fierce until can pinch my son's ear and smacked him in front of me. Very brave and fierce little girl" I was smiling all the way when I said this.
The teacher gave me a shocked look and turned to her and said "XXX come here. Did you pinch JD ear?"

ahhhhh so the story ended here. After that I dunno what happen but I'm so gonna lecture my son when he comes back later. Wah piang.. kena bully in school by a girl. But that's his character, very diam diam kind. *sigh*

So what am i trying to say edi ah? Shit man... the brain like abit not functioning well *read back title* Okay. So what I wanna say is.. when it never happen to your kid, you don't really care. When it happen, then it hurts. Same goes with the saying "the needle is not poking at yr flesh. You won't know the feeling".

Sekian Terima Kasih.

Louise!

Jayden used to call me Shanti. Then he started calling me Annie. Then now it is Louise.

He started calling me "Louise" after he saw this on FB.



The other day we're out and he wanted my attention.

He said MAMI MAMI!

But I was busying talking to someone. So he shouted

LOUISE!!!!!!!!!!!!

and surprisingly I said WHAT!

Oh man.. I hate this video!

And you know what?

Jayden love to disturb me when I'm talking to my husband.

And you know what makes it worst?

Justin followed suit.

*pull hair*

Mums are Magicians

The other day I asked Jayden to go and take his own pajamas and get dressed himself and get ready for bed. He went to his cabinets and told me "Mami, no more pajamas!"


You see I did my laundry and fold em downstairs. And I normally take some up each time i come upstairs. So lately I have been so busy, I only managed to hang, dry and fold them. 


So yesterday Big C helped me (should I even use the word HELP ka?) to bring the clothes upstairs and I sorted out all the clothes and place em into the cabinets. 


So last night, he went to the cabinet and said 


"Oh all my pajamas came back!"


And Big C overheard him saying that and told me. So while getting ready for bed, I was wondering to myself..


We mums are magicians. They blink an eye, the clothes are back. Blink again the food is ready. Blink samo they are fully bathed. How I wish I blink my eyes and all are ready like the show "I dream of genie" eh?

Jayden's successor

Last night, I didn't feel good. So I took panadol and went to bed at ard 8.45pm. I think the last time I slept early like this was when I was 1-3 months preg with Jayden. My usual bed time after I had my kids is 12am everyday.

Then I woke up at god-knows-what-time and I found that the lights was on, with the hoosband snoring soundly and the kids was still up playing. So I got up, walked over and offed the lights. After that I can still hear them giggling. I said "go to sleep................very late edi........."

Then in the middle of the night, I woke up again. Suddenly I remember that for sure the father will forget about putting on mozzie repellent for them. I gotto apply on them everynight otherwise they will wake up full with mozzie bites. So I went and reached for the mozzie repellent and started to apply on Jayden and then Justin. When I applied it on his cheeks, I thought "eh.. how come his face is like flaky flaky, so rough!" Then I took a closer look and I found..
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omg! Thomas stickers on both sides all over his face!

and he woke up telling me "I got thomas sticker..I stick stick.. nice thomas sticker".

So I asked him "who did this to you? Is it Jayden?"


He said "Justin stick".

I asked Jayden "who did this to Justin?"


He said "Justin stick himself".

I trust Jayden cos he seldom lie and if he did it, he would have done it on himself too but there's none on his face".  One thing is.. how on earth did he  manage to stick it until so nicely, with only some overlapping? *sigh* this lil fler, never fail to amuse me. I remember I used to blog about heart-pumping moments with Jayden but I guess he found a successor edi--> Justin Chan.

Need.To.Perk.Up.My.Life

Lately I am feeling down. Too many things to think about and most of it is not going my way. Its been a few weeks of disappointment (NO...I am not planning to get pregnant!) and many rejections and also some no news. Don't even wanna layan this stay-at-home-mum. Very frustrating. Very disappointed. Very Sien. Very Sad sometimes. Very ....like no direction.

Besides that I still gotto continue my duty as SAHM, morning send, fetch afternoon, Cook, Clean (not that much- no mood lah!) , wash, hang, fold, wipe, you know what I mean. To day I am not happy woth the housework, I am getting used to it. It's been what.. 6 months? since that ex maid left. So it's better now.

I seldom eat, sometimes once a day at night. Most of the time my best friend is Nescafe. Morning once, lunch once like vitamin. Finally I bought my jeans for myself.

Not gloating here, but never in my life I wear size 25 Levi's. I think the last time I ever wore this size was like when i was 15 years old before I ballooned and became 72kgs. So it comes in a package, smaller Waist, smaller bum and of course the breast also like flat tyre O.o but the flat tyre on the tummy is still there, hard to get rid off *remind: need to do sit up ah.....*

Anyway... i just went for a hair cut. When I am feeling sad/lost/disappointed I always go for a haircut. My neighbour offered to take care of Justin for me while Jayden is in sch. So I went and chopped my hair off. Before that I was playing with my hair and tried to make fringe with my long hair at home and Jayden said "Mami u cut yr hair like this. I like" And when he saw me  he asked me"mami do you think yr hair is nice? I think not nice. Faster Go back and change it.". :( So you know how nice it is la.

I took a bunch of pics and I can't find one that is presentable except this one. Mannnnnnnn.. now i gotto go out and "kenyit" my eye all the time to look cute. If not I look like a nerd. Proly I should get a big black frame specs and go all the way. :P

Sigh.. i wonder what is next. Pls god.. make it exciting for me. Pls give me some good news!