You know..I heard from an ex classmate "My husband said he will love me and care for me same like when we're dating time" When I heard about that, I wanted to laugh REALLLLY loud.
I said wait till you have kids. But then some men really still treat the wife the same. Lucky them!
"He also said he will still sayang me very much. We can still go clubbing. Go shopping. Go Holiday ALONE".
What if got kids? "Find someone to take care lah!"
Hehe... like her kids is ppl's obligation to take care so they can have a "good" relationship.
Very easy to say.. "just find someone to help jaga yr kids for few days.. then you all go have some quiet time lor".
It's so hard. Ppl also need to work. Ppl also have own family. Ppl got own life.
Cannot expect ppl to help. So how? Tahan la. See how long can tahan. Cannot tahan then ....err scratch la.
What to do?
Married life is like that wan la..