You know..I heard from an ex classmate "My husband said he will love me and care for me same like when we're dating time" When I heard about that, I wanted to laugh REALLLLY loud.
I said wait till you have kids. But then some men really still treat the wife the same. Lucky them!
"He also said he will still sayang me very much. We can still go clubbing. Go shopping. Go Holiday ALONE".
What if got kids? "Find someone to take care lah!"
Hehe... like her kids is ppl's obligation to take care so they can have a "good" relationship.
Very easy to say.. "just find someone to help jaga yr kids for few days.. then you all go have some quiet time lor".
It's so hard. Ppl also need to work. Ppl also have own family. Ppl got own life.
Cannot expect ppl to help. So how? Tahan la. See how long can tahan. Cannot tahan then ....err scratch la.
What to do?
Married life is like that wan la..
drag kids along for holiday, like me loh... :P
ReplyDeleteThen wait until kids old enuf to move out from the house loh... LOL!
bring.... bring all.... maid also bring all stay together in same room. The more the merrier ma. Better still.. sleep on same bed lagi best.
ReplyDeleteHaha, ya, very easy to say..
ReplyDeleteBut most of the time things will never be the same as before, and it's true especially after have kid(s).. But what can do, like you said, TAHAN only lo... wait until cannot tahan baru fikir what to do la kan..
once got kids.. thats it la.. just like me now, Breanna and I come in a package.. you want to date me, better date my daughter too! no need to kahwin also 'attached' liao.. :p
ReplyDeleteHahahaha... wait till she has kids! Even if she has found someone to jaga her kids... She sure will be worrying and missing them throughout the trip!
ReplyDeletehey, got kids still can go holiday without them ma.. kids can still grow up without us for a few days but husband and wife, they r more important too.. kids will have their own lives when they grow up, but spouses only have each other so do treat and love one another till death do us apart...
ReplyDeleteoh, just my opinion only .. my husband is not with me anymore and i miss him very much till now.. so if given a choice to choose, i will always choose him over my kids, to be with him as long as i can.. my kids will have their own lives one day.. oh dear, i m repeating and repeating.. excuse me.. :p
ReplyDeletekekekekee.. look for ppl to look after your kids.. what a joke!
ReplyDeletemarried life is definitely sooo like dattt...
ha... I always tot that I could just leave kids behind and go on holiday, just the two of us. hahaha... leaving them a few hours also I get worried. ;)
ReplyDeleteActually I feel, some people can really do that. Ensure they are enjoying and no eye see for other things. For people like us, worry abt this, worry abt that, so thats why end up like what we are. Really, some people can just dump their kids anywhere and not heart sick one.
ReplyDeleteMarried life IS liddat lor. Make the best out of it. Go holiday bring kids along but I'll opt out the maid. Sleep the same room ? Nah ! I dun want to wake up and see her face first thing in morning. Sure suay day !
ReplyDeleteIt's like that lo..who asked us to get married then have kids...sendiri cari pasal, so need to bear with it. Like u said, tahan tahan tahan, then think of what to do when cannot tahan lo. I don't think i can leave the kids behind and go holiday ALONE. I will miss them, hahaha! Bring all along, the more the merrier!! yeah! Happy family what!
ReplyDeleteI was invited to join my ex-classmates to go Singapore next month (Maine too)... I was thinking... U all take care of my daughter for me? I go there sleep in the hotel for 3 days with Maine...so sad... so tempted yet so impossible :(
ReplyDeleteHahaha.. your friend so 'tin chan'.. But then, who knows. I also have a friend who can leave behind her 2 kids (3 and 2 yr old) and gone for 3 wks Europe holiday. Geng le...
ReplyDeleteis like dat lor.. haizh .. whn u cant change it, accept it lor.. if u cant accept it.. dont think about it.. lor.. OR change the way u thik bout it lor.. ai... life is hard sometimes.. lolzz
ReplyDeleteYah, totally agree with you. Its so easy to say "You must have couple time. Just leave the kids for someone to watch. Blah blah blah." Whose going to watch lah!
ReplyDeleteBut I don't mind ler. The more the merrier also fun mah.
ya ya..when i complain after having kids i don't have holidays anymore. Hub will said, you go holiday la, who don't let you go lei? Easy to said leave the kids for someone take care, but i'm sure i will not have a fun and enjoyable holiday. I will miss my kids badly and also worry. That's why i choose not go to holidays, but i want i will bring them together with me.
ReplyDeletesabar je.... sabar sabar sabar... im telling myself... sabaaaaar
ReplyDeleteMaybe some ppl's fantacies become true, while others reamin fantacies.
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