Like everyday, I sent JD to sch and accompanied him to his class. His class teacher was stationed atthe gate for this week to make sure that only students + guardian/parents entered into the sch compound. So after the sch bell rang, no one guided the kids to queue up and get into the class. There was this lil girl S (whom I really adore, cos she is so so so so so nice and she makes ppl feel like she is such a good jie jie) who initiated everything, asked them to q-up and to go to the class. And that Cili Padi, she followed another q and went the other way. So, I was with JD & S that time. I heard S called "XXX, come here. Our class is here". That Cili Padi turned and crossed her arms. Then she just showed her tongue to S and walked towards S. Showed her tongue again, this time with her face REALLY closed to S's face. I don't know what got into me. My fingers suddenly automatically raised and waved "NO! You cannot do that! It's very rude"
Guess what?
She showed it to me.
I got a shock. C'mon tell me which 4 yr old girl is not afraid of adult? If you are 4 yr old, the shortest and tiniest in class, would you be afraid of this fierce looking aunty (oh u better believe how scarry I looked when I am pissed- ask Jayden and he'll confirm it) So I said "Hey, you do that again and I'll send you to teacher H's office (the Headmistress- every kid is scared of her)" And you guess it correctly, she did it again.
No. this is NOT her. I got the pic from here
#$@$%#$% i said in my head and I walked off with S and JD. We left her at the corridor and the teacher was walking towards me. I signaled for JD and S to get into the class and I told teacher K about it. I showed her how she showed her tongue and I said it this time. "OH MY GOD! she is so NAUGHTY! I said I will send her to Teacher H office if she does it again and she did it to me with no FEAR!"
Teacher K got shocked and said "Okay Okay" and walked towards her.
I went into the class. And again, everyone is asking JD to sit next to the cili padi. I said "NO! what if she smack you again?" All the kids looked at me. Why am I so Anal about him being bullied? Cos I was once like Jayden got bullied, and doesn't mind to be bullied then cos I just wanna be accepted and not shunned upon and I am so affected by it now (will blog about it later) So I told JD and the rest of the class "If XXX smack you all, you all must tell teacher, understand?" and everyone nodded.
So I thought I wanna go and complain to the HM. And while I was getting there, Teacher K was on her way back to the class without XXX. And I saw XXX standing in Teacher H's office and Teacher H was obviously questioning her about her behaviour.
She better get it this time, that this so-called-AUNTY here meant what she said. If she does it one more time, I'm so going to stand at the gate and wait for her parents to come. *grrrrrr*
I so shiok today when I read that this naughty girl was finally sent to HM. She is a spoilt brat.
ReplyDeleteCis! So rude. Hope the HM will sort her out soon.
ReplyDeleteWhat if the girl's parents show their tongue to you? LOL! It's so scary to know that this little girl is not scared of anyone...once, i was in hospital with my kid waiting for doc, there's one kid came to my daughter and guess what, she split water on my daughter's face, i was stunt and that blardee boy's mom just stand there without stopping the boy, i quickly carry my girl away...what a brainless mom! And of coz, i did juling the mom kuat kuat!
ReplyDeletewow.. u so calm huh.. somemore send to HM office.. hopefully that little gal will get punishment.
ReplyDeletei once kena by a lil girl that show me her tongue before .. cant recall when and how she look like ... i was stunt !! but also about this age .
ReplyDeleteNowsday kids not afraid jor la ..
Next time ask JD dont seat beside her again ... cannot always get bullied like that ... poor boy .
& i think the teachers should inform the parents about this too!!
oh, have a great weekends.
Aiyo this kid... *shakes head* For all you know, her parents don't even care. I've seen so many naughty kids misbehaving in public, bullying other kids but the parents (although they saw what happened) just buat tak tau only...
ReplyDeleteAiyahh..u should have taken out your camera phone and take her naughty picture. Tomorrow print it out and paste it on the notice board. I am sure she will never show that face again. :P
ReplyDeleteIt really depends. Maybe she is from a broken family and that's why her life is toughen up. need to check her background.
ReplyDeleteThe teachers must seriously look into the matter coz she's bullying n hurting other kids.
ReplyDeleteI think this poor child needs help. Bullies normally ada sikit emo hal in their lives.
ReplyDeleteOhmygod... sooo naughty. I don't usually say this even to my own kid but this girl is really... hoong bou. Hopefully she is at least scared of the principal and you don't have to deal with her anymore :S
ReplyDeleteSheesh, like no parent to teach her liddat. Listen to your cerita my angin also naik. But from what you say hoh, it's like the teacher also fed up and not doing much to guide her edi... I guess next step is talk to her parents, but beware, they might show you their tongue as well *haha* children learn from their parents ma, chow ngang chut how chou (if you get what I mean) :P
ReplyDeleteAbout a mth ago, this boy at the playground (think he's abt 4-5 yrs old) spat at me. He was sitting on top of the slide and didn't allow Joshie to go up. I had not even asked him to move when he spat at us. Kena my feet. I told him loudly that he's v rude. I think his dad who was several feet away heard us but he acted blur! Sometimes I feel it's the parents that are to be blamed
ReplyDeletesyikes! bullies..yeah, she definitely got family issues this chili padi. makes me wanna give her one tight slap across her face.
ReplyDeleteIf i were you, one day i will stand at the gate and see who her parents are... hahha...just for "ompph" and the "songness", i wanna see how her parents or whoever comes to take her.. there must be something at home that makes her act this way.. not the fault of the child but the upbringing definitely.. poor girl..
ReplyDeletebravo, I think we need more of mummies like you around. It's sad that this little girl behaves such a way and I personally think that confronting her parents may not help the situation at all. Most importantly JD and S know that they shouldn't be afraid to speak up if they been harassed. The way you stood up for them and the other children gave them the courage and also the awareness of class bully and what to do next.
ReplyDeletesticky situation! but i think i'd most probably do the same thing that u did. just hope the parents can accept the fact that their kid is being reprimanded for good reasons! some parents are sooo over-protective..
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