Verbal Self Defense

Oh man...... follow up from my earlier story today about this cili padi.

*sigh*

So when I went to pick JD up from school, I saw her mom picking her up in that big ass square car. No, Not Alph@ard. I was so tempted to go down and have a word with her. But I thought maybe the HM spoke to her and she stopped doing her "thing" in school. Give her a chance I said in my heart.

Once JD entered the car, I asked him him how was his day, what he had for recess, did he finish his water, what he wrote and yada yada and the final question was....

Me: Did XXX hit you today?
JD: YES! GOT!
Me: ah? are you sure or not? ( i was thinking SO DARING? Kena kantoi from HM still wanna smack???)
JD: really!
Me: How? Like this *smack softly* cos she was calling you or *PIAKKKK hard* like this?
JD: like this *PIAKKKK Hard*
Me: HAH! Where?
JD: here, on my hand...
Me: did you tell her off?
JD: got.
Me: (wah he so pandai? teach one day so smart edi???) what did you say?
JD: I said ....... AIHH......
ME: huh?? AIH??????????? (WTF is that?????? A sigh????)
JD: yeah, i said Aih...
ME: *smack forehead* (what kind of "telling off" is that??????) Why you say AIH?? You should say "STOP! I will tell teacher K" So, What did she say?
JD: nothing.
ME: how come?
JD: because..... i said it to myself
ME: *smack forehead smack forehead smack forehead and vomit blood*  Jayden.... You cannot like this you need to tell her properly. STOP IT! STOP HITTING ME!

So after that I drove to my dad's workshop and during lunch with my niece (his fav cousin), we taught him how to tell her off.

Even my niece also vomit blood and smack forehead.

Cos he keep saying "Stop it....*laugh*.. I tell your mother *laugh*"

and then finally he got it. But he face is not that serious, still trying not to laugh.

Aiyoh.....apa maciam la...

Mr. Chan please take over.

Girl, you messed with the wrong momma

Like everyday, I sent JD to sch and accompanied him to his class. His class teacher was stationed atthe gate for this week to make sure that only students + guardian/parents entered into the sch compound. So after the sch bell rang, no one guided the kids to queue up and get into the class. There was this lil girl S (whom I really adore, cos she is so so so so so nice and she makes ppl feel like she is such a good jie jie) who initiated everything, asked them to q-up and to go to the class. And that Cili Padi, she followed another q and went the other way. So, I was with JD & S that time. I heard S called "XXX, come here. Our class is here". That Cili Padi turned and crossed her arms. Then she just showed her tongue to S and walked towards S. Showed her tongue again, this time with her face REALLY closed to S's face. I don't know what got into me. My fingers suddenly automatically raised and waved "NO! You cannot do that! It's very rude"

Guess what?

She showed it to me.

I got a shock. C'mon tell me which 4 yr old girl is not afraid of adult? If you are 4 yr old, the shortest and tiniest in class, would you be afraid of this fierce looking aunty (oh u better believe how scarry I looked when I am pissed- ask Jayden and he'll confirm it) So I said "Hey, you do that again and I'll send you to teacher H's office (the Headmistress- every kid is scared of her)" And you guess it correctly, she did it again.

No. this is NOT her. I got the pic from here

#$@$%#$% i said in my head and I walked off with S and JD. We left her at the corridor and the teacher was walking towards me. I signaled for JD and S to get into the class and I told teacher K about it. I showed her how she showed her tongue and I said it this time. "OH MY GOD! she is so NAUGHTY! I said I will send her to Teacher H office if she does it again and she did it to me with no FEAR!" 

Teacher K got shocked and said "Okay Okay" and walked towards her.

I went into the class. And again, everyone is asking JD to sit next to the cili padi. I said "NO! what if she smack you again?" All the kids looked at me. Why am I so Anal about him being bullied? Cos I was once like Jayden got bullied, and doesn't mind to be bullied then cos I just wanna be accepted and not shunned upon and I am so affected by it now (will blog about it later) So I told JD and the rest of the class "If XXX smack you all, you all must tell teacher, understand?" and everyone nodded.

So I thought I wanna go and complain to the HM. And while I was getting there, Teacher K was on her way back to the class without XXX. And I saw XXX standing in Teacher H's office and Teacher H was obviously questioning her about her behaviour.

She better get it this time, that this so-called-AUNTY here meant what she said. If she does it one more time, I'm so going to stand at the gate and wait for her parents to come. *grrrrrr*

Why is the pill not working?

After my post this morning, I took a medicine which was supposed to make me a lil happier.


I patiently waited and waited for the effect to take place.

JUst now after lunch, I sat here and chat with shoppingmum. Just for that 5 mins and I turned around.

I don't think the pill is working.









Yenjai, why am i not happy yet ? And the effect can last for 6 hours only right?

Too bad la.

Yesterday I blogged about how sweet Jayden was. Today I wanna bang my head to the wall.

Last night, I was unhappy cos I was upset over a customer . I digress cos I don't wanna bitch about my customer. But she is just so ARGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So I was unhappy.

I wanted to tell it to someone, face to face. You know, just to express what I am feeling inside and to get some reaction like nodding head and agree and say "yeah she's a bitch, jek!". If I were to speak to a person who looks at other place, won't say a thing, why not i just go and knock the fucking wall right? At least the wall will give me a TUK TUK sound.

So, there was this man which I sometimes call Husband lying on the bed, relaxing as usual. So I wanted to talk and of course someone will say "EXCCCCCCCCCCCUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MAMIiiiiiiiiIIIIIIIIIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiIIIIIIIIIII"

And of course I said "YEAH WHAT YOU WANT?"

and he replied "I WANT TO SAYYYYYYYY EXXXXXXXXXXXCCCCCCCCCUUUUUUUUUUUUUSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEE MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE only".

Ok then? Said edi right? ANy other thing? Can I continue?

I got a *nod nod*

So continue bitching and there he goes again EXXXXXXXXXXXCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

And i said EH STOP IT LA! I want to talk to dadi you know? You have nothing to say then you just let mami finish and then you can EXCUSE ME ALL YOU WANT.

The father just say "it's okay la. He want our attention only" *pat pat on the kids' head*

Mother's blood went to 18 floor edi.

Mother screamed.

EH! I JUST WANT TO TELL YOU HOW UNHAPPY I AM. YOU SHOULD ASK HIM TO KEEP QUIET AND LET ME VOICE OUT MY UNHAPPINESSS! I KEEP INSIDE UNTIL I WANNA BURST EDI YOU KNOW? BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOO INSTEAD YOU ASK ME TO KEEP QUIET AND LET HIM HAVE ALLLL THE ATTENTION HE WANTS. WHAT HE WANNA SAY?? EXCUSE ME ONLY??? I AM STUCKED AT HOME, LOOKING AT THEM THE WHOLE DAY. AT NIGHT I CANNOT EVEN VOICE OUT MY UNHAPPINESS FOR JUST 5MINS?

Son say "it's okay mami".

In the mother's heart "what it's okay. It's NOT OKAY. FARKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK".

No. mom just walk out watch tv and feel like shit inside. Still very angry. Still full of fire. But no one to tell to and went to bed.

Mom woke up, feel shitty, feel like a bomb about to explode anytime, but no where to express and no one to talk to.

So what mom do?

Do what? WORK LA, tiu. Like as if you get a break or pat pat on the head.

Unhappy? too bad la.

The Pipe Man

just now right..this malay guy came la...say wanna check my cooking pipe.

So as usual i said no need la.. then he said "YA A _ _ AH (we cannot say THE WORD!) Ini bukan panggil u tukar la, Mau CHECK SAJA LA!

So fine..since my part time maid is around and she is quite big size to topple him if he dare to attack us.. muahhaha So i let him check. so he checked left and right then he asked me to feel the pipe. True la.. its slightly broken. Then he took out some cut out from 1988 saying we cannot use this plastic pipe since 1988. Yada Yada Yada..

Then asked me to change 79.90 then i said Ok, will ask my hub to change. He tulan and asked me.. "where yr hub going to find? we MONOPOLY the mkt. Only We have".

I said nevermind, he make the decision.

So he belittle me, say i respect my hub dun respect myself wor, dun care about my own safety. Say he know I don't make any money.. and my husband doesn't care about me. I cook and if explode i die first. Keep stepping on me indicating i am stupid this and that.

I said money I have, but This kind of things I want him to be resp. I said give me yr namecard and wil call u if we need. he say no.. later u go complain say i make yr pipe spoil. He say u cannot find anywhere wan....and yr husband cannot find any information about our pipe.

I said "takpe eh... i carik kat internet. Mesti banyak information.Terima kasih yea....."

And locked my door.

everyday also check and check which one is the official one also we dunno.

Her Own Law lor..

The rule in a bakery:You go in. Take the tray and the bread clamp. Choose what you wanna buy. And queue up, pay and get lost. Right?

I always thought that's the law. But I was so wrong.

This morning after class, Jayden and I was at the tiny bakery in Centrepoint. So we got in, took the tray and the clamp and chose what we wanted. The lady before us was with her son and was also choosing. So they're choosing between left bread and right bread that looked perfectly similar to me, I moved on and went to queue. Takkan I stand there and wait for her to choose which bread she wanted right?

Then someone tapped my shoulder.

"I was before you" she said.

It was the "confused" lady just now.

And I went "huh?".

She walked straight to the counter, passed another lady before me and stood there with her tray.

The man behind me looked so confused 'cos he came in before her! If she said she come in before me then she got the right to go before me, then he should go in front of her, right? Wrong according to her.

So we all just stood and looked at the lady paying for her food. And at the counter, she went undecisive again. Don't know wanna pay for only ONE curry puff or TWO. 

I felt like saying "niamah, just freaking pay for the god damn karipap and leave la. It's just between paying extra rm1.20 only what". But of course  I didn't. We're educated people ma. Not like some people. Say in the heart nehmind.. cos no need to pay money wan :P

Finally she made up her mind and bought 2 karipaps. I hope she enjoy her karipap and doesn't choke on it. I know, I am damn evil.

So it doesn't matter, who came before her, she only know who came right after her and she got the right to move on to any spot at the queue. Who's law? Her own law lor...

What I found out later...

I gave her one good round of lecturing. Blardy 3 freaking hours until Jayden & Justin also fell asleep in the living room.

Finally she admitted she took my bra.

I asked her why she cannot tell me what she need when I keep asking her many times in the shoppingmall "What do you need?". She was SO CONSIDERATE "I don't want to use your money.....". Macam Betul.

So, I asked her to think overnight whether she wan't to stay or not.
Don't want to stay, easy. Pack bags and we will send her back to agent.
Cannot promise if the agent won't give her a WWE smackdown beating.
But I did remind her that the agent can remember her very well because I have called before and told them about what she said "No one teach me say sorry" or "Cambodia no need to say sorry". I told her agent say "bring her back and we will TEACH her how to say sorry". " I am sure they remember KHUNARY very well....."Her eyes nearly popped out when I said this.

If stay. Be prepared to face the challenge. Cos I don't trust her anymore. Life won't be as nice as last time. And if she steal anymore things besides my bra, she better admit it tomorrow or else when I find out she's in deep shit.Even if she can hide the things in the store room books or whetever ( and I mentioned about how she hide my mirror and tweezer in my hub's tools place) I will make sure she won't get to bring it out of the house or back to Cambodia. Wah.. the face macam so kesian.

Saturday morning came. I was preparing Jayden and myself for Shichida when she came in with her hokkien mee face "Maam can i say something to you". I was pissed cos i only went to bed at 1230am and Justin was tossing and crying the entire night. No sleep for me and somemore she showed me her black face. I told her "NOT NOW. I AM NOT FREE. TALK LATER". Normally Big C wil be at home with Justin. Big C will do his own thinggies and leave the maid to handle the small kiddo. But that day I took everyone, Big C, Small C, Little C hampalang Cs and left her alone. I told her "We're going out. You stay at home. If you don't wanna work, pack your bags and wait for me to come back. We will send you off today. If you wanna work, go wash my curtains, wipe the fan, wipe the window, wash the toilets blablablabla"

I came back all was done. She came to me and said she wanna say something to me.
Me: Okay. Talk.
Maid: Maam, I want to stay.
Me: Ah huh? And?
Maid: I am wrong
Me: So?
Maid: .....
Me: What else ?
Maid: ...................................................................................*sob*.......................kneel down one leg............kneel down 2 legs
Me: Stand up. I am not your king or your god. No need to kneel. I haven't DIE yet.

Yup, she thought I wanted her to kneel down. CheeSin.I think she watched too much chinese movie. Maybe I should let her watch the kungfu movie where they punish the ppl using kneeling method on the durian or the josstick. :P

She said she will follow whatever I said (I doubt it)
She said she won't steal anymore ( I doubt it)
She said she will be good for 1.5 years until she goes back (I doubt it)

I said "Okay. If you want to stay, I want you to take out all your things and show me. I will write down what you have. And you can only bring all the things I see today back to Cambodia."

She think think and said "okay"

So we went down and she took out her things. I asked her to open up every single cloth there is, opened up all the bag zippers, I dug her pants pockets. I flip her diariesssssss (manyak o). And what I discovered?

Her dead father's leg's skin.

For fark or what? I don't know. Jonzz said it sound like some black magic thinggy. I also suspected it.

She said she miss her father so she bring the leg skin. Niasing cannot bring baju or something ah?

Then I found my picture with Big C. Used to be in his wallet. I asked her why she is keeping our picture she said she just want to keep her bosses picture and she found from the rubbish bin.

Sounds more like black magic? Yeah I know.

In the diary I found her writting in chinese. She can read and write very limited chinese.

She likes to draw. I found her drawing some stickman. 4 stickmans. One wearing skirt, with 3 boys. One of the boys is really small with hair standing up (looks like Justin to me). She said she missed her family So she draw her family.

And i found her writting I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU ALL OVER. Sometimes its just I LOVE YOU, but sometimes its I LOVE YOU BROTHER. I GOT WORK NOW. I BRING BACK MONEY FOR YOU TO STUDY. I HOPE YOU REMEMBER ME. I LOVE YOU.


So, I took her to Giant and let her choose her bra and panties.

What I discover was, I know the reason why she took my bra. She doesn't know that Bra got sizes. She took one 32 and 3 pcs of 38. I asked her to try the 32 and she couldn't breath. I told her direct loudly "NO WONDER YOU STEALLLLLL MY BRA LA. Don't know got size ar?" Imagine how she stuff herself from 38 into a 32.

She bought face cleanser and also rubberband to tie her hair. I told her can buy in pasar malam but she insist to buy in giant. Suka hati la. I am going to use her angpow money and buy what.. better use all la.

So now, she is doing her stuff. I warned her, one more time its straight to the police station and I will ask the agent to pick her up from the police station. She said okay.

Big C said its not so nice that I go and flip her diary. Hey, I know its not nice. But if I never flip how can I find the picture and the Leg Skin you tell me? Maybe the I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU is for Big C? To be frank we did argue alot lately, maybe she jampi ah? How I know? Mabe she taruk some leg skin into the water we're drinking.

So how now? I also dunno how la. Very sien.

Anyone know someone that can read khymer? I got some letters which she said she doesn't want anymore. I wanna know what she write.

And I am so eager to find out if she ever throw some of the dead skin into our food or drink and what she did with out pic. Niamah don't let me find out if she try to harm us. That time, buddha also got fire.

Because you smile smile like that

She avoided me for 2 days. She hid downstairs, only clean downstairs and never help me with my kids. FINE.

What I did? I asked her to look for the bag of bra. She pretended that she was so busy stacking the tupperware in the kitchen cabinet.

Me: NING, I am talking to you
Maid: ya *continued to look away*
Me: Look At Me when I am TALKING to you
Maid: *looked up and tears falling*
Me: I want you to look for a bag of bra. You understand? the bras are white colour and there's one which is grey. It also has a matching panty also grey. You understand?
Maid: *Showing the hokkien mee face (black face)* YES! (niamah so loud. Normally talk like fly flying around)

I went up and continued with my work. I can hear her banging the furnitures downstairs, looking for the bag wor. I just let her be. Then I went down and check on her, she was folding the clothes. I said "Ning, found the bag already?". She said "Find already. Don't have". I told her "I remember I have seen it. So look for it UNTIL YOU FIND IT. If you cannot find behind, then find in the store room". And then she slowly get up and looked for the bag. I went up again.

I came down she was outside pulling grass. I asked her again "Where is the bag?" She said "don't have" I said to her " downstairs don't have, then go to my working room and find in the cupboard." And I made myself a cup of Milo. She thought that I was going to drink my Milo downstairs so she hurried to my room and took out all the plastic bags. Then I came into my room and I continued with my work. Her face was as black as charcoal. Too bad I cannot take the pic and show you guys.

She took everything out, and then put everything back into the plastic bags. Then she used her legs to kick the plastic bags. Then I turned around and asked her "Don't have?" She said "don't have". Then I said "oh... sure have in this house. Look until you find it. By the way, I saw Jayden's Thomas cap just now. Where is it?" Wuah... i telyiu, you should see her face. Like.....Like... like charcoal. She took out all the plastic bags and looked for the caps. Who asked her to simply chuck the things into the plastic bags right?

So around 5.30pm both the kids got up from their nap. Justin was hungry so I went down and made him cereal. He was crying upstairs and she heard him crying and went up and console him (shuin hui yau liong sum la - ada hati perut also). She saw me coming up and she wanted to go down. Buddha also got fire I tellyiu. I finally pointed at her and said..

Me: YOU.SIT.DOWN
Maid: Looked away.
Me: LOOK AT ME when I AM TALKING TO U. What's wrong with you? Showing me your black face for 2 days? I know you are angry with me and You don't want to see my face. I am also angry with you. So now angry with me no need to clean upstairs is it? Only need to clean downstairs is it? The floor here no need to mop? no need to sweep? I have enough of you. Do wrong thing and some more can show me your black face? You like looking like this is it? wah.. somemore last night can answer me like that hor? You take what! fuiyoh..you're too much already you know. Somemore bang bang the things downstairs...fuiyoh so angry hor? I can tell you if you are angry with me, I am angry at more.
Maid: I.......am.....not....angry....I am angry (what talking?????????) because you angry at me and you smile smile like that.
Me: what??? I am angry with you and I smile smile like that? I am angry so I must show the face like your face is it? I am angry so how? CRY AH? Or do my face like yours? Black face? I cannot smile ah?

Fast forward....(i forgot what I said actually but i will tel you what i remember)

Me: If you think you want to continue with your attitude like this for another 1 and half year, sorry. I don't think I want to keep you. I told you, 2 years pass by VERY FAST. I don't care if you're really nice or not nice last time. I only ask you to be nice for only 2 years. Only when you work for me. After that I don't care already. You get me?

Me: Why do I need to have a maid like you? I am paying you to make me angry you know? For what? People hire maid to have easier life. I have a maid but I need to do things myself, take care of my kids myself. And also work at the same time. I get no rest. No sleep at night. For what?

Me: Can you say that you NEVER take my things recently without asking me?
Maid: .......
Me: Ning. PLEASE. Don't ever think I am stupid. I might not say it out, but doesn't mean I don't know.
Maid: ......
Me: You took my mirror and tweezer and put in sir's tool box in the store right?
Maid: yes.......
Me: I am so sure you also took other things. Don't make me say it out.
maid: *nod*
Me: I don't want to mention about money. You get me?
maid: *nod*
Me: I know, you think that I am not using the thing, why you cannot take and use right?
Maid: *nod*
Me: Let me tell you something. If the ppl is not using the thing, it doesn't mean that they don't want it or you can simply take it. I also put money on the table, why not you take it and say I am just leaving it there so you can take it?
Maid: *shake head and sob*
Me: I don't understand what is wrong with you. It's not the first time, and I am so SICK of telling this to you. I don't think you will ever change so I am not going to say it already. I just think you are sick. You know you are sick or not?
Maid: *nod* (niamah..what also nod)
me: You LIKE TO STEAL. THAT IS A SICKNESS. YOU UNDERSTAND? Wah samo last time I told you about my fren's maid stealing things and you teach me how to say LOOVIT samo. Now who is LOOVIT???? [Loovit=thief]
Maid: *nod*
Me: You want to go back Cambodia is it?
Maid: No. I want to stay.
Me: If you think that me and sir is not treating you nice enough, then you go. I can waste my money and send you back. I told my boss already I want to quit my job and take care of my sons and also clean the house myself. I also told sir already. Both of them asked me to think what to do.
Maid: You and sir treat me nice but when you all go into the room....
ME: You don't need to talk to me now. You think properly what you want to say and tell me. You want to go back Cambodia, can. No problem. Pack your bags and we will send you. But remember, you're here for 6 months. If you go back now, you won't have a SINGLE cent cos your 6 months pay goes to your agency. And if you think you can go back Cambodia NOW? You can dream on. They will take your name and picture out again and show another person. And if they choose you, you need to stay another 2 years. And please don't ever think about waking up at 7 am or go to bed at 10pm every night. Don't even dream about watching tv, eating with your boss outside, and sitting here not doing anything. You don't know how lucky you are to have me and sir as your boss. I know you wake up only need to take care of the kids while I work. I never say anything although the house is like shit. People say my house is smelly and dirty did I scold you? You think if you work for other people and they say that to the boss what will happen to the maid? You know, other maid also take care of the kids, because of that they cannot clean the house. They have to wake up at 5.30 or 6 to finish everything before the boss wake up.You wanna try that? You think what you wanna say to me, what you want to do.

What happen after that?

She play with my kids as though nuthing happen. I was looking for the baby walker parts and she helped me to look for it. We had our dinner and we rushed out when she was eating her dinner cos we need to bring Jayden for his Hep A 2nd jab.

This morning she acted like as if nothing happened. Later when the kids are napping I am going to ask her what is her decision. And if she decided to stay, then she gotto take out her belongings, and we will list out all the things she has and I will also snap pictures of it (if I have the timelah) I don't want to have anymore problems in the future about what belongs to who. Before she goes back to Cambodia, I will take out the list and match it with what is with her at that time. But then I might find my bag of bra inside her bag. That one will another story....

This Time I cannot Tahan anymore!

I have no idea why did Jayden went to washing machine and play with the door this morning. As we're rushing out, I went to close the door and I noticed that my maid washed a little clothes with full load of water. Then I saw this bra and I thought "Eh, she throw my bra into the washing machine again?" So I scooped it out and I saw the bra. It was mine. But I never wore it before.

Let me tell you something about myself. I used to work in this lingerie company and they give away bras as half yearly incentive. So I have lots of bra unworn where I put it inside the store room. As time pass, I got pregnant, gained weight, lost weight then I got pregnant again and then I am breast feeding. So I am stil not back to the same size yet. So since i have experience with lingerie, I'm very observant about lingerie. Especially if its mine. I know it's mine.

So I scooped it out and water was leaking from it and I went to her. "Who's bra is this?" She looked panicked and said "it's mine". She was scared because she thought I caught her washing her clothes with ours in the washing machine. She got no idea that I'm more pissed because she stole my bra.

We rushed off and I went for meeting. After the meeting I went to pick Jayden up and we all went to Ikea for our lunch. I never spoke to her for the entire morning and afternoon, until just now. I came home, and i went to dig for that bag of bra which I placed in the store room. Not there anymore. I went and search all the boxes. Tarak. And I remember I have one of the same one in my closet. So I took it down and I put it side by side.

It was the same except hers was very cacated and dirty. I asked her again "Who's bra is this?" She said hers. I told her the story of the bra, how I know its mine. She looked away continue to wash dishes. I asked her again " who's bra is this?" She said "my bra". I asked her "Cambodia got Wacoal?" I asked her one more time very firm this time, she said "My own Bra. I bring from Cambodia". Fine. I was carrying Justin who keep pn putting his hands on my lips like asking me not to scold his friend. I took the kids I went upstairs to my working room as I have lots to do. I have so much work now I am drowning.  


The kids asked for milk, I carried Justin in one hand and make it with another. She just stood and looked at me. Justin is down with fever. Don't know if he is teething or because of the oral fungal thinggy.


So, the kids are upstairs with me.Playing in my working room. And I am rushing my work. And she is downstairs, maybe trying my panties now. Later she will do catwalk for my husband. mch.

My friend msn me and laughed saying that maybe she saw the bra and thought that I don't want it anymore. I said "hey...my money is there. Maybe I don't want it also? So she take it considered helping me izit? or my husband is sitting there. So take and rape la since I am not using it. Can ar? Ngam or not. Take without asking permission means steal la"

And then my sister sms me, asked me how come she can masuk into my bra. Mana same size? I said how I know. No wonder I see her bra like damn ketat attheback part and I thought she gained weight? Or maybe from last time small small that time already got this bra no money to buy new one? She at least need to wear 36A man. And mine was 70B. U imagine la 2 sizes different. Small can wear big but big mana can wear small? Okay, don't wanna talk about sizing here.

I don't know what to do with this woman already. Baru that day ppl asked me how she is doing and I said she's okay. *ptuik* Now I gotto think what I wanna do with her. I won't consider sending her back to the agency for counselling cos I don't want her to come back and give my kids flying kick. If I send her off means its for good. But Send her back and waste my 8k? I am not that rich yet.Niasing betul, cannot stop giving me headache.

So, what happened after that?

Continuation from the previous post. Last night after posting it in my blog and calling SJMC. I sent the pictures to Malay Mail.

So I took my medicine and finally dozed off until I got a call at 11.30pm last night. It was a call from the hospital apologizing and asking me to go to their office to further discuss about the issue. I said "Okay, I will call tomorrow and ask them to drop the article". And she said cannot wait because they are going to print it out and publish it by 5am the next day.

Pleasee....Pleaseeee she said. I said Okay. You go call them and tell to drop it. And then Malay Mail called me again and told me that its already getting ready to be printed out. And what matters most is, "If it already happened, it happened. Its public awareness. Everyone deserve and have the right to know".

True.

So I told him to call the hospital and tell them they can't drop it from being published.

So I thought I can sleep properly after my doze of inhaler. I managed to breath better but I couldn't sleep. And then finally I slept and guess what? The whole night I was dreaming about the woman that called me asking me to help her. :| 

So today Big C sent this to me.

It was written that I haven't drink the drink. Nope. I nearly finished it.

Let me clarify with you guys again. The drink was being sold in this kiosk together with sandwiches, porridge, kuihs and fried stuff. And the lady that sold me the drink took the cup from the table and the MILO is from a table dispenser. Not a vending Machine.

I know there are many people who likes to find this kinda way to make money out of it and I hate them.  I used to work in beverage company and I know some people likes to try and make money the fast and easy way. If not get money, they want free drink for a long time. Once, a man even claimed that there's a spectacle arm in the drink.Another said he purchased 12 bottle of 1.5L ice cream soda drink. After the 10th bottle he said he felt that the drink doesn't taste like ice cream soda. And he want money or free ice cream soda drink forever. Halo? You know companies invest alot of money to do research and have quality control on the products eh? 

So you think I am those kind of people? Please. I have my two hands, two legs, 2 perfect eyes. I can work and find my own money and don't agree to this kinda doing.

Anyway back to my case. I don't know what is going to happen next. And I am not bothered to go and further discuss about it. It happened already. And for now I am still okay. Can shout, Can scold And can Blog but short of breath only. But if in the future if they suddenly find cockroach living in my stomach then its different case edi.

Note for DaddyKhong: It tasted abit crunchy. When I bit on the baby cockroach it went PIAKKKKKK but since it was covered with MILO I cannot describe how exactly it tasted like. Maybe you want to taste it for me? Courier to you okay? :)

I am now officially SICKER!

I went to SJMC today to meet up with a chest specialist and was given steroid inhaler to help with my breathing difficulty. So there goes my RM290 for just that 15mins consultation. Well, some money cannot NOT spend. I don't wanna die early. I wanna wait until i get irritated by my own grandkids then only I wanna say bye bye.

Then I though okay since I'm thirsty better get a drink. So I went and bought a cup of MILO and a sandwich from this snack stand near the receptionist. I took a sip. It was too hot.

So I thought wait for a while. I went and got into my car. I took another sip.

And another sip.

And another sip.

And I reached home. And I drank more. This is the drink.


And then I felt something in my mouth.

I spat it onto my finger and thought " What the heck. How come got green bean in MILO?"

And then I recall, they DON'T HAVE ANY GREEN BEAN DESSERT ON SALE. So what the Fark is that thing.

I looked closer.

Mahfulat.



Cockroach egg! ARGH!!!! And the BABIES URGHHH!!!!


I took a look inside and I saw one wing and one leg. Don't ask me where is the rest. Probably in the drink bought by the pregnant lady before me.

Aiyoh, before I'm cure, I AM NOW OFFICIALLY SICKER than before. The thought of me biting the egg PIAKKKKKKKKK and samo I can use my tongue and push it out and spit onto my finger really gives me the *shiver*.

And they tell me hospital supposed to be a very clean place. So if you see me M.I.A for a very long time, you know what happen to me.

*toot* him la

Last Monday was Big C's farewell dinner and we're at Damansara Village Restaurant. So we ate and suddenly his boss came, late. This ex boss is also my friend, known him through the internet the same time as I knew Big C. (ah now u know i met Big C thru the net leh....)

So half way eating suddenly he just asked :

X: Eh make one more baby la! must get a girl ma...
Me: Don't want la. Enough edi.
X: Cannot! must have one girl one boy wan
Me: Nolah....i'm happy with 2 boys.
x: Nolah with girl..you can dress her up. Pan leng leng ma....
Me: Ah? I sendiri pan leng la. haha
x: different wan. Try one more.
Me: Don't want la. Come out another boy i senget man.
X: Nevermind! if boy try one more time!
Me: wah lau... 4 also boys i can die. i walk senget like this *show senget body* That time i really gotto pan leng leng and get ready to masuk orang gila ward edi.
X: chey so young only *count count* you're only 20 plus ma.. so fast stop making baby
Me: :)
X: Like this... You don't feed your husband alot alot of seafood. Then you also la.. Don't so LAN TOR. WORK ABIT MA!
Me: Work abit? What work abit? Who said I'm not working?
X: You working meh??
Me: Yah!
X: oh... *continue to eat*

10 minutes later
X: eh what you work as ah? Chu Kah ah? *giggles*
Me: What chu kah? Don't be so low standard okay. We call it Stay At Home Mums. Higher standard wan ok?
X: oh okok. Stay at home.
Me: Anyway I freelance design.
X: ohh design ah..okok

So I asked Big C, What is Lan Tor? And he said Lazy.
WTF. He said I'm lazy ??? He must be thinking that I sit at home, do nothing. Read newspaper, drink coffee in the garden, watch astro-on-demand, go out for massage, go for manicure.
If I didn't work then what was I doing until 330 am that day. Work until eyes also cannot open.
*Toot* him la.

btw....woman MUST make baby until they die is it? 20 plus cannot stop making baby kah?

And also the fact that he tried and asked if I am working as CHU KAH (Household/housewife) and laughed about it really pissed me off. He thinks that SAHMS are useless and do nothing at home. Just because his wife is working, that makes other women who are not working or who're not working in the office are all useless. I was so tempted to shoot him back and seal his mouth shut but I gotto give face to my hub right? or did i already ter-shoot-ed him? *evil laugh* Ah well......

Anyway *toot* him la. No respect for SAHMs. Lan Tor wanna talk with this kinda people. Now I really Lan Tor edi. hahahahahhaha

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Added: Neh... last night I was telling my sister about this story and my hub said "Aiyah ppl say one word only ma.. like that also wanna tell how many times edi.." eh.. pls hor.... Its One-Word-Only but then its like so damn tajam and its poking my flesh and not his flesh so he won't know how painful it is.  Right?

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To Big C: Nah.. i know u will say .. "aiyah why have to blog about this. Forget about it la." Oppsss I did it again :P I ter-blogged wor. Don't marah okay? Nahhh your Lan Tor wife cooked this for you. Don't know what what-yummy-braised-pork. Special wan okay, baru learnt from recipe book.  I just tasted it, its quite yummy. Don't play play got abalone sauce wan you know..

Our Maid's story *ADDED INFO*

1.0 Introduction...

She is with us for exactly 60 days. She is 23 yrs old Cambodian girl. When she first arrived she always like to cry while holding her brother's picture and said that she miss him. Then she told me that she is in Malaysia to work and earn money for her brother to study. Now she said No need to send money back to cambodia and she want to use the money for herself to study. Different cerita :S


2.0 Started....
She took my new calendar without asking my permission on the first few days she was with us. When I asked her she said she wanted to "see" only. The calendar was in her room for many days. Then I told her have to ask permission if she want to "use" or "see" anything.

She then took my hub's new calendar diary and wrote in it. I thought my hub gave it to her. Bythe time i found out she took without permission it was very long after edi. So i just say "let it be. no next time"

Then I saw her nails, painted with clear nail polish. I didn't know if she came with it or she took mine. So I didn't make any noise.

She walked out from the toilet with just towel. My hub saw and he told me. Then I wanted to approach her when she was doing that but I always cannot "catch" her at that moment. (either I'm nursing or in the room or something) -that happened in old house.

I found her using her pinky and dip into Justin's water bottle to test temperature. I shouted EKKKKKKKK and she laughed and pour the water away and did it again! I said DIRTY!! don't ever do like that anymore. Now I still check on her whether she is doing that or not.

One day I found her EATING my 3in1 coffee. EAT, u read it right. She was chilling at the washing machine, standing with her legs crossed. One hand resting on the washing machine-leaned backwards and another hand was aboutr to pour the coffee into her mouth. Then she saw me standing there and she nearly choked. Then she keep saying "I no hand maam. I do like this (biting the coffee packet). I no hand. I do this (trying to tell me she was taking clothes out from washing machine and place into dryer. She thought I just saw her in fact I saw the entire thing. I asked her what she is doing and she keep repeating "I NO HANDS, I NO HANDS" trying to tell me that she doesn't available hands to hold the coffee while she "WAS WORKING" so she used her mouth to bite the coffee pack. She lied obviously about no hands to work and holding the coffee powder with her mouth. I told her "This coffee, is to mix with water and DRINK. Not to eat like this." And I immediately took out all the "cheaper" coffee packs and placed into a container and told her "This is for you. You can only drink coffee in this container".

10 mins later, i went down again. This time she was standing at the washing machine again. Flipping magazine. :S When she saw me she slowly turn....... and slowly put down the magazine..... and tried to reach for something to do. :S as if I cannot see if its in slow motion.

When we just moved in, I was busy taking care of the kids and I asked her to unpack. Then I "ninja-ed" down (walk like a ninja-without any sound) and found her squating down, reading magazine. Then she saw me and she quickly put down the magazine and pretend to work.

She also like to sit down and do nothing when I'm upstairs taking care of my kids or working. So I have to on-and-off ninja down to check what she is doing. Because of the swollen mouth and walking up and down the stairs, I lost weight. Managed to get back into my pre pregnancy jeans.

Once she was cleaning the room, she arranged the bed nicely and guess what? She even arranged Jayden's milk bottle nicely, hidden behind the pillow.

many times when she cleans the room, even if she see the diaper she will just totally ignore it. C'mon hard to ignore when its full with Shit right?

One day I saw her outside , about to start to bath my dogs. I went out with Justin and I saw a container with Washing Powder. I asked her "What are you using to bath cha cha?" She point at the washing powder. I asked her why ? "NO MORE SHAMPOO MAAM". Shit her la.. I went and took a new bottle of shampoo just next to the old one and gave her. Later that day I asked her whether she knows that the washing powder is very rough and can cause skin problem to the dog. She say YES. And I asked her if she runs out of shampoo herself, she will use the washing powder and bath? She say NO. :S

2.1 Starting to misbehave...

She took my mirror without asking me. That was when I had my swollen mouth.

She tried to watch tv when we left her at home. How we know? The tv was showing "starry" movie. She doesn't know how to operate astro- so simply press the tv remote control. That happened twice. And I didn't scold her -yet!
She tried to watch TV during her working hour (noon) even when she's supposed to be working. I was up in the room with the boys.
I asked her to come into my working room and gave her "verbal counseling" - telling her I know she took my mirror and also tried to watch tv. She cried say "sorry" and I asked her to return the mirror immediately and she just say "yes maam" and walked out of the room and avoided me for 2 days - never return my mirror.
2 days later I was in too much pain and wanted to look at my swollen mouth and I asked her to return my mirror NOW!!! and she gave it back to me showing the "black face"
I asked her to sit down and repeat what I have said to her (when I gave her the "verbal counseling" and she managed to repeat everything (means she understand what I've been babbling- her english not bad and she is not stupid-confirmed!). I asked her why she did not return the mirror she replied "I FORGOT".
She took my nail clipper again. I asked her why she said she found in the drawer inside Jayden's room (she sleep in Jayden's room because we have not cleaned her room before cny. We stuffed all the boxes inside). I said NO, gotto ask me first.

I went and bought a English-Khmer dictionary with Wen's help. (Thanks wen!) One day I heard Justin cried for very long time and I went down. She was sitting FAR AWAY from Justin, reading the dictionary letting Justin cry on the matress, on the floor. Jayden was running around asking me for "ribena". She did not give him water to drink for 2 hours after he woke up. I went down and she quickly hide the dictionary and crawled to Justin and pretend like she is playing with him. I asked her to come to the kitchen while I started to cook and I asked her what were you doing? Why Justin cry so long? Why Jayden don't have any water to drink? She keep quiet. And I replied for her. Because you're so busy reading the dictionary. You ask my permission to read? Are you very free? You cannot hear Justin crying? You cannot see Jayden don't have water to drink? You can read, IF you ask my permission to use the book and after you have finished your work. She just say YES MAAM.

One day, my hub opened the toilet door and saw her....trying to get up from sitting on the toilet seat. The toilet seat was down. She was sitting and chilling in the toilet. When my hub asked her "what are you doing?" she just walk out from the toilet and went to hide.

One day I found her using my dryer, she was trying to smuggle the dried clothes into her room to fold. I asked her why did she used the dryer when she was supposed to hang it under the sun. She answered "Because we go out. And you ask me to help your sister cook".

And then next day I saw my dictionary in her room again. And I brought the book and asked her "did you take my dictionary again without asking my permission?" She said YES. I flipped to the page with the word "PERMISSION" and asked her to read. Must ask permission, understand? YES MAAM she replied.

So since she said we brought her out and because of that she cannot finish her work. I asked her to stay at home one Saturday and gave her a list of things to do. Things which she was supposed to do but never. Like vacuuming and mopping my room or upstairs. She told me she mop the house twice a day. MY FOOT. She will only mop the top floor IF I asked her "Have you mop the floor?" And she will lie and say "YES ALREADY". And I will say "ARE YOU SURE?" then she will POOF!!!! go missing and fast fast clean the top floor. When we came back her hair was in a mess. Obviously just woke up from beauty sleep. And I checked, she did not vacuum the rooms.


2.2 Tested to the max
Then I found the dictionary again in her room. This time I really got so pissed off and waited till the kids is napping then I went into her room and "counsel" her using the dictionary. When I asked her why she never ask my permission she told me "I DUNNO ENGLISH". I said "What? you dunno english. Thern everyday what language you used to speak to me?" Then she kept quiet. Then I used the dictionary to point at every single word I said to her, making sure she fully understand what I say. Cannot understand English then read khmer. Then I asked her "You know that I will be angry if you take my things right?" She say "YES". Then I asked her " Then you purposely take to make me angry?" she replied.... YES!

Then I talk to her about her taking my nail polish: she admitted she used my nail polish
I talk to her about her not returning the mirror: She say she purposely didn't return it
Then I talk to her about her taking my hub's new diary calendar: >she admitted she took without asking.
Then I talk to her about not doing her things : She admitted.
I talk to her about her sleeping in the toilet : she admitted.
Many many things she admitted and she looked surprised that I know many things.

Then I asked her "After so many things you have done wrong. Do you have anything you want to say to me?" She say "NO. Nothing". I said you don't know how to say "Sorry?" And I flipped to the word sorry in the dictionary. And she read and she say "NO!" I said Cambodians don't say sorry wan izit? She replied YES.

Despite her irritating me like that, I maintained my coolness. I never shout at her. I continued to talk until she cried and finally said "I AM SORRY MAAM".

And she became good?

Wait.. cerita belum habis...

she avoided me for that day and the next day. The next day she just went off to sleep after dinner. Never help me with preparing the kids for bed. She just placed their pajamas and diapers on my bed. And that night I remember very well was Tuesday night. Because it was supposed to be our pasar malam night and Jayden was fussing at night and couldn't sleep because we didn't goto pasar malam. And Jayden fussed till 1.30 am and he started to cough. So Big C brought Jayden downstairs to feed him cough medicine and he came backinto our room and told me "She is using the air cond! How?" I said "Knock the door and ask her to come out NOW!" and he did and he can hear that she offed the main switch and then only open the door. Big C asked her "WHY YOU ON AIR COND AND SLEEP?" she replied " I NO ON AIR COND". Big C asked her "you come outside and feel this room , so hot. Your room so cold. And you say you never on air cond? You never on who on? On by itself ar?" She stratched her head. And he said "CANNOT ON" and she closed the door.

I asked my hub, you just let her go off just like that ?

he told me "yeah. can see her face so guilty. she don't dare to do it again". No need to nag her and keep teling her is wrong because she alreday know.

3.0 You all believe ah? You believe? I don't.

And you know what? Big C told me the way I counselled her is wrong. Say I should just "point the mistake, tell her don't do it anymore" and she will listen. You guys think so? Tell me. What I'm so angry about is she treated me like as if I'm stupid and she's so damn smart and worst my husband said that I'm wrong.

Now, I told Big C that I wanted to install cctv because I totally don't trust this woman or whatever you wanna call her anymore.Big C told me

1. No point install cctv. She will feel that she don't have freedom and she wont be motivated to work.
2. Don't scold too long. Just point out her mistake and ask her don't repeat it.
3. Don't check on her too much, give her opportunity to show us what she can do.
4. Just give her the task and let her handle the way she want to do it.

I said I'm worried that she might harm us by putting things in our food and Big C say "Nolah.........." and i told him about someone sent the tea to pathlab and tested there was period blood in the tea and he went like "Yakah?" You see? He never hear all these stories before so he doesn't understand how I feel.

I said she didn't eat the fish I left for her. Maybe she did something to the fish. He said NO LA...

I said She doesn't drink the soup and he said "We also don't drink soup la". What????? Just because of her we don't drink soup?

And I mention that she can put liquid detergent in our kid's milk nd he say NOLAAAAAA got bubbles wan mah. I think he dunno, now washing powder got low sud, bleach got no bubbles. Everyday put lil bit by the time you realize she was poisoning your kid, maybe its too late. I'm not taking the risk. My kids we're talking about here.

And because of that woman, we argued. We argued many times. When I said "Okay, I let you deal with her. I'm not going to scold her anymore" . He told me " I have enough problem at work edi". Then how?????? Scold, I am wrong wor. Don't scold, let him scold he said he also got problem. How? You tell me?

So please..... please share with HIM about your experiences with your beloved maid, especially cambodian maids.

Also I would like to know:

1. have you ever send your maid for "COUNSELING".
2. Did they change after the counseling session.
3. Do you know what the agency did to the maid during counseling session.(eg scold, whack, etc)

I told Big C that once I send her out for counselling, I don't want her anymore. She will come back and harm my kids. And expected answer from him "NOLAAAHHHHHHHHHHH Won't wan la" Arghhh!!! *Pull Hair*

You see why I'm not free to blog? Got maid also no time. No maid also no time. What is happening wei?????!!!!!

Don't kacau a nesting woman

Last night, I turned into a pregnant incredible hulk.

First, Jayden came home and keep whacking me. Whatever he wanted to do and if i say NO, he'll whack/slap my body and he loves to aim at my tummy. So i smacked his hands and asked him don't do that. Guess what he did? He cry la... said "I SAD! I SAD!". *sigh* Can see from his eyes that he has no idea what is wrong and why he is in the bad mood. So, I tahan from being angry, I turned on the laptop and let him enjoyed himself with sesame street games, pressing whatever keys bird bird and elmo asked him to press happily. And then he wanted Thomas videos pulak. And the line was like sh*t, not loading. So he thought , maybe press/whack the keyboard can make it jalan abit. And you know what? each time he whack the keyboard the stupid line really jalan! So whack whack whack my laptop la. Again I said don't do that and he whacked me again. *blood boiling edi* But then cannot blame him right? Cos when he was playing the sesame street games, we asked him to press the keyboard. And then now we ask him don't press? Abit confusing right? So tahan again.. not his fault. Blame it on the stupid streamyx line.

So after dinner, I can sense that my battery is dying. So I lie down. And then I saw my pile of clothes/stuff which I was supposed to bring to hospital. I thought should put in a bag and just grab and go if I wanna go to the hospital. So off to the store room and looked for a bag and my husband said he wanna wash for me first. FINE. Project tergendala.

Then I started to dig and dig into Jayden's drawer and found a few stuff that no2 can use. Then I went and wrote what I need to buy by this weekend. So I was basically here, there, and everywhere.

I told my husband " You know my feelings now? I'm like a bird that is going to lay some eggs, gathering sticks to make a nest" . And he answered me "AIYAH WHY U THINK LIKE THAT?" Guess what happened? *BOOM!* the blood boiling edi. "YOU AH! IT'S CALLED NESTING INSTINCT! ASK YOU TO READ, YOU NEVER READ! EVERYTHING ALSO AIYAH AIYAH AIYAH! LATER SEMUA ALSO SAY DUNNO BLABLABLABLABLABLA!"

You know, men will never understand what women gotto go through during pregnancy. No matter how understanding they can be. UNLESS they read alot or attended some course with the wifey. So at least when they're in the delivery suite they know what to do, like massage the wife's leg or back, chat with the wife and not walk up and down, read newspaper, go toilet like dunno how many times, play games with handfone and sleep. If like that, better don't be in the delivery suite. Make the wife's blood boiling only.

I once thought, if MEN is seahorse (male seahorse give birth to babies-not the female) how many would volunteer to do it? Male seahorse knows the feeling of being fat and the feeling of giving birth, contractions for a long time. See how pity the lil seahorse is pushing to get the fry out?

Anyway......so I stopped nesting and went to bed. Middle of the night, the very usual thing happened. Jayden came and started to wiggle next to me. He just love to roll over  on my face. Sometimes he wil just stop rolling and left his bebird area on my nose. Usually I'll just leave it and he'll just roll over and goes back to sleep. Last night, I brushed him off. And he started crying and whacking me. He even used his head to bang my nose! ARGHHHHH!!!! *blood boiling edi*

You know how frustrating it is to have someone whacking you when you finally get some peaceful sleep and then whacked yr nose with a very HARD HEAD? And the one inside me been doing some olympic somersault for the whole day and there's not much room left for the lil fler to move.

Jayden whacked and whacked me, I just tahan and tahan until... he used his head to bang my tummy! * Kaboom!* Beh tahan edi. I just reached for his ears and twisted it and he started to scream. His father finally came to his rescue although I've been shouting "STOP IT! STOP WHACKING ME!" for a good few minutes. Can see from Big C's facial expression that he was so scared of me. *can imagine myself in green colour , turning into a hulk* Jayden just cannot stop crying and that point in time my mind went blank. Totally no feeling of pitiness, sadness, or what so ever. Maybe I was too tired to think of feel anything already.

I then gathered myself and pulled the lil one near me. Big C refused to let go (so imagine how scarry I was?). I pulled Jayden over and he started to hug me and wanted to WHACK me again *PULL HAIR* When he is going to learn leh? sigh....pity the fler. His ears nearly fall off after my super twisting. So I just hugged him and we all went back to sleep after a good 20 mins or so of shouting and crying in the middle of the night. Neighbours must be wondering what the heck is wrong with this family, shouting like mental ppl in the middle of the night.

This morning, I woke up feeling like a pile of sh*t. Made milk for Jayden and he woke up. I thought to myself "Don't know if he remember what happened last night or not?" And then he said to me "Bite bum bum...." Requesting me to bite his bum bum. "Bite elbow..., Bite Chin.....Bite ChitChit....." Well, he's alright. Requesting me to bite here and there - our usual game. All happy and chirpy like a little bird that just got fed with worms and went off to school happily with his dad. Well, maybe he remember or maybe he doesn't. Maybe I should learn from him, forget about the sadness and think about the happy things that is going to happen *pray , please let it be happy day for me*

Rejected Kid

Me...a rejected kid.

Many people told me that they felt the same when they read my "Small in size but big in my heart" post. To be honest, I was worried and think about him all the time cos I know he's not happy at his nanny's place and constantly being bullied by the nanny and another girl in that place.

Lately its been very obvious that they really bully my son. The girl is only 1 but knows very well how to bully him. Every morning she will wait for Jayden to bring his bag and she will ransack his bags and snatch all his toys. And the nanny? She will help to snatch and give all to the precious girl when she run to her and say "Uhuk Uhuk Ming Ming......" and point at my son and the brainless nanny will help to snatch the toy and give it to her. For 2 years, the nanny had never praised my son for anything. It's always complain complain and more complains about him "Mowe Kwai Yung" (useless), Say that he is skinny and doesn't know how to get chubby, Says that he dunno how to talk and only know how to cry. I told her off once, "he is speaking english, Don't you know what he is saying?" And she stopped complaining. She said that he is useless cos he dun wanna to be potty trained and the girl can go to toilet and do her business. Why not leh? The nanny pays 200% to the girl what? Why not? But today I still see the girl in mamy poko diaper. Anyway, wherever the girl does it's always "Pandai....so clever..." Ptuik! Never sleep also clever girl..drink milk in bottle more than 30 mins one kali also clever girl.. Ptuik!

And what is worst? I gotto bring Jayden's toys to the nanny's house EVERYDAY. Why? she just dun wanna leave the toys in her house. And the other day I saw her hiding the puzzle bag on the shoe cabinet when I was about to leave the house and when I went to fetch J, she told me J dun wanna play the puzzle. How to play when she already hid the puzzle in the morning?

And why did i put him there although I know the nanny doesn't like him? Cos I have no choice and I don't wanna scare Jayden with sudden change. At least he thinks that the nanny cared for him. And at least she won't harm him. He will call out "aunty aunty whenever we pass the woman's house" That is how much he care for the aunty but aunty? No love or what so ever feeling towards him although she took care of him since 6 weeks old.

So i told myself tahan for another month. Wait till J get his Hep A jab and I can send him to Playsch + daycare. But on Friday itself when i was driving towards her house, I saw her and J in the garden. They're smiling. But once I got down she gave the look like as if she was so damn tired and was about to die. And told me "Sasha I don't want to jaga your son anymore. He only know how to cry and he likes to jump. I'm very tired"

My reaction? Immediately I laughed out. Don't ask me why I laughed. I was just too (angry? Sad? Disappointed? Happy?) I have no idea what I was feeling and I just asked her "So when do you want to stop?" At one point I wanted to scold her or even tell her off saying that I already knew about it, that she doesn't love my son and yadayadayada and she is lazy and just wanna take care of smaller baby so that they will sleep and sleep and wont walk around like my son. But anyway I just kissed my son and went home. That cheesed her even more. Everytime she complaint about my son, I will just kiss him and hug him tight. Expect me to hit my son and scold him in front of you? Slowly wait la...

So the next day, we immediately brought him to the sch (that I have sourced even before he turned 2) to register and get his uniform. They even told me that I can start on Monday (today). Thank god, I sorta suspected that something is not right and I went to source for the playschool. So everything went like so smooth for us (for NOW). We went home and put him into his uniform and this is how he looked like.

Saying 10 and 1!

We even let him mingle around with some kids at the daycare on Sat. He was busy jumping around like tigger and played together but not with the kids. That's one thing I want him to learn which is to play with other kids.

This morning, he couldn't get up. So i dragged him into the car and once reached, he stood up and saw the sch and happily walked in himself. He went into the classroom himself and wanted to sit at the seat he sat last Sat. But it was taken so teacher asked him to sit next to her.

He was okay at first but then his tigger mojo came and he began to bounce bounce in the class, walk and read alphabets on the wall.

But other than day, he didn't cry except for few occasions when he saw me and asked me to join him in class especially the music class. But overall I think he enjoyed himself. We waited at the gate like other kids and as the bell rang, everyone said YAY!!! and he too shouted YAY but he has no idea what is happening. *LOL*

And when I drove him back to the nanny's place, he began to cry. I left him to buy some lunch for myself and I took a bath before heading to drop some toys for him and he was STILL CRYING. He refused his lunch and as soon as he saw me , he took his slipper and asked me to carry him. And then he calmed down, I whispered to him "mami go work ok?" He yelled "BABAI!" and so i walked out and he CRIED AGAINNNNNNNNN.

Sigh Sigh Sighhhhhhhhhhhhh That is how much he hates the nanny place.

And now that I know (officially) the nanny dislike him, I lagi Susah hati wanna leave him there. I felt like I wanna resign and jaga my kids (no.2 coming in Sept). But then I wanna have my own income so I can have backup plan IF ANYTHING HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE-no one know what's gonna happen anyway. i gotto decide soon cos I gotto pay the sch in May already- whether its half day or full day (daycare). But i sayang wanna leave him there for the whole day. He is going to the youngest kiddo (and also the smallest size). I saw the tilams being laid on the floor, and the pillows arranged in one straight line for the boy and girls to sleep. There will be 29 of them for the daycare. They will bath, eat lunch, sleep and do some activities like coloring and so on. Sigh..this is even tougher than any other problems I have faced before. So susah SO SO SUSAH...

What you wanna be when you grow up, little liar?

Okay, before I start my Bi*tching mode, let me show Barbara my MAC pic.



And If you're wondering, what's in the bowl....


My lunch.

*switch to bi*tching mode*

You see. That day I brought J to Mcd to play play right? So while we're having our breakfast peacefully, suddenly a boy started to cry very loudly. And then he ran to his mother pointing at another boy, who also ran to his mom [they're sitting right next to us].

MOMMY!!! HE PUSHED ME!!!!!! And the mother said "AWWW POOR THING! He PUSHED You!????" *staring at the kid next to us*

And then the kids pretend like nuthing and went on to play again.

And the same boy cried and whined again. MOMMYYYYY HE PUSHED ME LIKE THIS LIKE THIS!!!! This time pointing at J's friend (same nanny). The boy looked totally clueless why everyone is looking at him.

So I was thinking. Ah poor guy. Kena bully left and right. I believed him because the boy (the one with the same nanny) always like to bully J when the nanny is not looking.

Then J ran off to play. While he was trying to slide down, the same boy (neh...that one that likes to cry and point at ppl wan leh.....) cried out loud...again. He said "MOMMYYY HE PUSHED ME! pointing at Jayden. And where was J? behind him trying to wait for his turn. And he waited and waited , he tried to overtake the fella without pushing him. And I was like....What the hell? You trying to frame my son? Nehmind, kids....kasi muka. ( I was thinking, since kena frame edi, might as well push also right? Eh but I'm not that bad mother la ..think only oky? imagination ma. watch too much Barney edi...)

Then while Jayden tried to overtake him (imagine ah, the butt is hanging OUT OF THE SLIDE , one push can jatuh like cempedak okay? ) He wanna push my son!!! So while holding my camera in one hand I grabbed J and brought him down. And that boy Cried again!! MOMMY HE PUSHED ME!!! and what did the mother did? Sitting on her chair, waving the hands like BEAUTY PAGEANT QUEEN. The father, reading newspaper.

So I pretend to scold J. "Notty Boy. No Manners! If ppl like to sit at the slide and don't come down, don't push. Go play others!" and I gave him a spank on his butt. The boy was looking at me. I think he got it. Fine. So my J acted like as if he know what I was talking about. Off he went to play with another slide.

AND GUESS WHAT? That Rascal ran after my son, chased him and purposely blocked him. And You know my J la, dun care wan. He cried AGAIN " MOMMY HE BEAT ME!

WTF! I really felt like punching his face! What a little liar. And the parent acted like as though they are immuned to his lie and crap. But Then immune is immune, dun la never do anything and let yr kid lie saying that everyone is bullying him. Argghhhhh! I wanted to strangle him. People wanna slide, he hogged the slide. Ppl wanna climb he block. People climb slide he block. So damn irritating. If you're in my shoes, do you feel the same?

So enough of his crap, everyone left that place. And his mom, like bodoh still waving at her kid like some beauty pageant queen. I think ah, his mother's dream is to have "WORLD PEACE" and dyed her hair from blonde to black. That's why the anak like dat also. Blek!

Oooohhh I so cannot tahan that boy. I was thinking, so small(young) also lie like expert edi (maybe the parents are not that smart to notice that he is actually lying) I wonder how he will be like when he grow up. *hmmmmm*

Ah you wanna see his picture or not? (the first pic) *geram*

I wish to go back to Standard 3

WHY??????????

Why???????????

WHy?????????

*anger* (woooo..i know some of you like to see me anger eh?)

Because I was FRAMED by my teacher and I will NEVER EVER FORGET her, although i forgive her. COs she should be *count count count* DAMN OLD NOW! So gotto forgive her lo...

The story is like this...

Morning Session in a school in PJ. It was a rainy day and as usual many students will bring the cute cute little umbrella to school and place it behind the class when we're studying in the classroom. The teacher walked in with her irritating click klok heels carrying a pathetic looking red umbrella. She slowly walk towards the back of class and place it right next to the standing library.

Everyone wished her "SELAMAT PAGI PUAN ASMA"

She said "Selamat Pagi, Sila Duduk".

And I went to the back to throw rubbish, which so happen the rubbish bin was just next to the standing library.

SUDDENLY..

The wind blew and the standing library fell "KABOOMMM!!!" And whacked Puan Asma'a pathetic umbrella. And she yelled "EKKKKKKKKKKKKKK" I guess god was angry with her, her umbrella was the only one that got flattened by the standing umbrella.

And she started to grumble and nagged saying that ....yes ME, Saying that I was the one that that pushed the darn standing library and flattened her 4o ringgit umbrella bought from JAPAn by her husband.

The same day, when other teacher walked passed she will call them in and point her fingers at me saying that I ruined her umbrella.

The next day, she did it again.

The next next day, she did it again.

And again.

And again.

Until one fine day,I got so sick of her, I chosed not to attend school. Both my parents came to my bed and asked me why and what happened. And I told them. Well, my parents are the typical chinese type of parents. "Oh...like this ah? Naah take $40 and pay her la".

I told my parents "NO. I don't want to pay her because its not my fault!" and since its not my fault i went back to school. And every time , Puan Asma will give me the stare. And I can see her pointing her fingers at me.

Until the day when she announce our final results, she was still staring at me. Me and another friend of mine, both got the same results and normally there will be 2 student that gets No.1 position in class and there won't be any No.2 position for that semester.

Of course, getting No1 in Class together with MY is the best part. Because she was my first friend ever in this school since std 1. My parents of course wasn't there. They were never there, when I receive my thropy, never there when I receive any prizes in schoool. And never there to defend me.

Then the announcement came, everyone clapped hands and they announced " No 2, TMW!" I was like "HUH?????" ME no.2???? SInce when? And Puan Asma pushed me up to the stage to receive the prize. And then They announced again "No.1 LMY!!!!" And MY looked puzzled but she went up to receive her prize. We planned to hold our hands together-gether to receive our prize.

I went and asked Puan Asma how come I was announced as No.2 when my results are the same as MY. And she gave me a smirk and said "Sebab dia punya surname start dengan L, You punya start dengan T. So diala dulu!" and she turned around chat with other teacher laughing loudly and cheerfully.

Niamah! I felt like slapping her Farking face hard with the trophy I have in my hands. Nevermind Nevermind....I know I got No.1 and she used the reason surname to argue with me. I know, she is still angry with me because of the umbrella.

Till now, I can still remember her face, and her umbrella and the throphy.

If only, I have fought back and gave her a good one and bring the issue up to my headmistress. If only I could go back to Std 3.

**Name was not CHANGED AT ALL because I farking hate her.**

Now when someone try to frame me, they die. :) No chance given.

By the way, this tag was passed on by Jesslyn,Judy and Brenda.
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Instructions:
Title: The Age That I Wish To Go Back To
Requirement: Write about the one age that you wish to go back to and why?
Tag Mode: 5 blogger
1st - You leave their blog and post link and add to the list below.
2nd - Let the blogger you want to tag know they been tagged by comment in their blog or etc.

The Age that they Wish to Go Back to:
Amidrin wish to go back to age 22 to correct back some mistakes in life.
Lemonjude wish to go back to age 6 to enjoy kid's life.
Sasha wish to go back to standard 3 to screw her teacher for framing her.

And I'm passing this to Mott, Janice and Joneh and Yvonne (because she has a new "home")

Only The Truth

Normally I'll do my tag in my tagblog. But this tag (got it from Kerry) is different. So I'll just do it here. As for my most embarassing moment from Chineeq and Brenda, I've done it in my tagblog.

This is the list of what I don't like when someone ask, say, tell me things that realllly piss me off!

1. Are you sure it's yours? Are you sure you did it?

If its not mine, or I didn't do it I won't post it on my blog, ok?

2. You changed job AGAIN?
Yeah, cannot ka? At least I can get job easily without lowering my expectations. You? Where are you? Can you go home early? Can you go to work late? Can you? Can you? (ooooo this is dedicated to my ex colleague who stayed in the same company for almost 5 years and still earn nuts).

3. Is that your son?
I recently told the person who asked me this question and I replied him "No, this one I just picked him up from rubbish bin".

There. I've said it.

This are the people who had told us the only truth about them:

Ogre the Caveman

Janice This Is Miracle

Trinity from Rooms Of My Heart

Rinnah from it's All About The Spins...

Giddy Tiger from Giddy Tigers

Leah from Leah's Cafe

Montessorimum from Our Future Our Life

Jo-N from Shower Your Kids With Love-The Right Way

Kerry from My Kids, My Life, My Everything

Sasha's Tags & Such

Passing this to:

Min

Whoisbaby

Annie Q