conversation with myself.

yesterday at 6pm *hand fone alarm - go home*

Okay pack pack and go home.

Sibeh sian. Sibeh tired.

Alamak, sudah tidur in the car *looking at J*

(Reached home)

Fast fast....*carry J into the room* Please don't wake up first.

Okay fast fast.bath then can lie down for a while.

Okay, damn syiok mandi edi. Okay, sleep sleep...

Sleep........Sleeep......

Sigh..today he never eat much. Ate so much biscuit. Dunno whether will kena sore throat or not.

Sleep......

Sigh... Tomorrow how la? must think of what to bring for him to eat tomorrow..

Sleep Sleep......

Maybe I stuffed him too much junk food la. that's why he dun wanna eat lunch...

Sleep Sleep......

And must bring elmo pilow. Then he can sleep...

Wtf? cannot sleep.

Nehmind watch house. Maybe half way can sleep.

(house ended)

I still belum sleep. *sigh*

(J woke up)

Sigh..where he get his energy. Damn hungry edi.. where is my husband leh? *sms husband*

Sigh....poor guy. Need to rush his work. What to do wait la..

Poor lil fler must be hungry, "Jayden do you want to eat cheese?"

*excited* "Okay babe, see you". Fast fast get ready, hubby is nearby. Can go makan then go Pasar Malam.

(eating dinner) Later go buy corn, then can boil and let him munch in office tomorrow. And get bread.

(at pasar malam) cilaka, no corn. How? Nehmind, bring cheese.

(at home)

must sleep. Must rest..

Ah..painful. Why no2 likes to strecth the legs at my tummy wall leh?

Wuah so damn hot! go take shower again.

Okay sleep sleep...must sleep.

Arghhh hot! hot!

ouch..pain pain...baby, please dun make mami pain pain okay? be a good baby *stroke tummy*

Don't care! sleep!

Sleeeeeepppppppppppppppppppppppppp....

Tomorrow wake up must first boil the egg. Then cook a sausage for him to eat as snack.

Ok ok set. Sleeppp....

Sausage cook like that heaty or not? Nolah.. only one ma.. should be okay wan. Sleeep...

Samo what else to bring ah ? Ah soya bean! just in case he reject water like today. ok sleeep....

Sleeep.....

Arghh Hot!

Okay, samo must bring watermelon. Eat the heaty stuff at least got watermelon to cook down. okok set. Sleepp..

HELP!!! cannot sleep!!!

SO HOT!!!!

(Jayden cry-nightmare)

Adoi night mare. He always get nightmare when he is sick. Sigh..I think he has sore throat edi.

Alamak sick again...Jialat. *touch j's forehead* nolah.. dun scare myself.. sleep sleep..

Sleeep!!!!
Sleeep!!!!

Uwaaaa why so hot wan? Why cannot sleep wan?

SleeeppppppppZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

*handfone ring - 7.25am)

Huh? So fast wan? *yawn*

(wake Up)

I'm so tired..*yawn*

So sleepy...

Will be another day with J in the office. Must bring him go eat lunch at 11.30. Otherwise he will be cranky again.

Okay boil egg.

Okay cook sausage.

cut watermelon.

*sigh* somebody please knock me pengsan la..i beh tahan edi....

Rejected Again?

"Sorry to say that Jayden cannot come to school from tomorrow onwards.........until next Tuesday".

Wah.. my heart sank when I heard that. In my mind, I was thinking "rejected again?"

Then I asked "why? What happenned?"

"The education minister issued us a letter saying that our school need to be closed for a week due to chicken pox virus"

*phew* At least he wasn't rejected and he can still go to school next tuesday. Then it hit me. Who's gonna take care of him for that 4 schooling days? *headache*

So, today he's in the office with me.

Played with his ikea train set - Bored with it.

Ate 1 packet of kokocrunch.

2 packets of julie's biscuit.

Watched 3 dvds.

Played with puzzles.

Now, running up and down in the meeting room.


Later, I don't know.

Ah... you might think that I have a very nice boss that allows me to bring my son to work with me eh? Nolah, cos my colleague's kid also comes to the office after his kindy. So what can they say if I were to bring mine right? But the problem is........people's kid can sit and play by himself. Mine likes to come "Mami, I want eat. Mami, I want watch. Mami, I want play. *pick up fone* Hawo? Hawo? Buy Kakult.

And it's only 11.30 am now. He tried to ask me to go home twice edi. How to tahan for one day? Or can I say...how to tahan for 4 days?

Nehmind...nehmind..wait and see how things goes first. Must look at brighter side of life, right?

Pic taken by Tricia last Saturday. Thanks woman!

Reflection of the parent.

Read about mott's post about her kids resembling her. Let me share with you a personal experience happened a few days ago.

I brought Jayden to meet up with my sis and BIL in Ikea for dinner. Before my sis came, I accompanied Jayden to the play/tv area right in the middle of the restaurant. Being not so mobile anymore, I sat on the small chair while watching over Jayden playing happily with another boy. Suddenly, I felt like someone was pulling my chair and I looked over. It was a boy (probably around 5 years old) trying to pull my chair, with me sitting on it. So I thought he was collecting all the pink chairs and I gave it to him and sat on a blue chair. And he came again, pulling the chair away. So I gave him a killer stare and asked him "What do you want?". He just stared at me and gave me the look like he was saying "get off fatso!" and then I saw my sis walking towards me so I gave the chair to him. He snatched it and ran away.

So I went and bought dinner for us and while I was walking back to the play area, I saw my sis scolding someone. And As I walked nearer, a man carrying the boy that played with Jayden earlier walked towards my sis and asked my sister "Is this your son?" (pointing to Jayden who was still busy playing despite all the commotion). My sister said "No this is my sister's son (pointing at me). He then said "If you're unhappy about my son, you don't have to shout. You can COME and tell it to me".

My sister then said "first your son (the one that pulled my chair earlier) pulled the chair and made him fell down. Then he went and whack that baby's face (pointing at another 8 months old baby with his mom holding on to him with the very terrified face), and then he came and slap my nephew with both his hands like this (showing karate chop action). Your maid just ran away when that happened and I just asked him "where is your father". 

The man continued and insisted that my sis shouldn't shout and asked him sis to go to him personally and tell him. He said "Oh I already scolded my maid". No. He NEVER said sorry to us.

Looking at all the commotion, I just went and scoop Jayden away and ask my sis to walk off. No point talking to a big bully like that. It was a play area and not only one pair of eyes saw what the kid and the father did. In fact,many people saw and know what happened.

Of course, my sis was super pissed with the father and the kid. I (at that time) got no reaction. All I was thinking was, as long as J is fine, unhurt and not the gila one running around grabbing chairs and whacking people - I'm happy and I wanna eat my dinner, let Jayden enjoy his dinner, go home to take a nice hot bath and sleep like a log."

So you see how the kids reflect the parent?
The bully kid has got a bully dad.
And the boy that got whacked, but still continued to play and then happily ate his Ikea Children's meal has got a blur and gila mom like me.

Apa maciam? Same Same?

28 months old Git Boy

Yeap, my Git Boy turned 28 months yesterday and I nearly forgot about it. Luckily babycentre sent me an email informing me about it. After he turned 2, it's hard to keep track of his milestones especially when my brain now is officially lack of memory.  

Here's some random conversation with my lil guy lately...

Oh Shit... Amen!
We're on our way out from his kindy/daycare when he dropped his water tumbler on the floor. Then he mumbled something like "Oh shit....Amen". So I turned around and said "Jayden what did you say?" He picked up the water tumbler and gave me a cheeky smile and then he purposely dropped the tumbler again and said "Oh shit...Amen!" Immediately I started to think...."okay, maybe I did say -Oh shit. But Amen? Since when did I start to say that? He went in to the car and said it again! This time I heard it correctly. He was saying "Oppppsi. Oh man....!" Now that is what I always say when I dropped something. Man......I need something to nourish my ears. Any recommendations?

Mamimi?...
Remember I used to say that he refused to greet me. Now, he loves to just call me for fun.
Jayden: Mamimi......
Me: Yes baby?
Jayden: Mamimi............
Me: Yes Jayden?
Jayden: Mami......??
Me: Yeah babe?
Jayden: Mami? mami?
Me: ......
Jayden: Yeah babeh...
Me: ?????

Acha...
The other day, when I went to pick him up from his kindy/daycare - his pillow was in the sleeping room. So I said "Jayden go and take your elmo pillow okay?" So he ran happily to the sleeping room and his favourite teacher walked out, passed him the pillow and he said to his teacher  "Acha...". Yeah you guessed it correctly, his teacher is Indian. Acha means - Okay in Indian language.

Cicimemon...
Last Monday, I had to work at home because he had slight fever. So I was busy with my laptop and suddenly my lil git boy ran to the fridge and opened the door. He was mumbling about something and I waited and waited for him to close the door. And then I saw him, carrying a 2.04kg watermelon out from the fridge, placed it on the floor and tried to cut the watermelon with his----masak masak knife. While he was doing that he said "I want cicimemon. Wash.....Cut...I want cicimemon".

Mr Bossy
Jayden: *switch off the lights* I want nen nen.
Me: *switch on the lights and continue to read magazine* okay, Dadidi make nen nen for Jayden...
Jayden: *switch off the lights* I want sleep. I want nen nen...
Me: *switch on the lights again* You drink nen nen first okay? Then only we switch off the lights.
Jayden: *roar* I want sleep!
Me: Okay...Okay...*switch off lights*

Babra!

The other day in the supermarket I saw this cute lil plain white T with a zebra picture on it and showed it to Jayden . He immediately said BaBra! And I looked at the price and my eyes also gulinged cos it was EXPENSIVE!

So, I told him. Mami will make for you okay? So I kept my promise and made one for him.


How? Nice? Cute or not my Babra? I found the cute Zebra pic online and printed it out.

I dug out the long bought plain white T from Jusco and then drop by to the craft shop in ss2 to buy the fabric pen. Thank god, zebra has only 2 colours. So I only need to buy black colour *phew*


And since its white, you can just slip the design under the fabric and trace the zebra easily.


And tadaaa!

Since I have only used a lil bit of the fabric pen, I went and dug out an onesies bought from reject shop warehouse sale (rm3.50 only :) ) not long ago and scribbled something for no.2.

Must be fair right? Kor Kor has a Babra shirt takkan baby don't have?

And now, we wait for them to wear it together. :)